i need helpful advice about my relationship

Discussion in 'The Whiners' started by tomarrow never knows, Jun 4, 2006.

  1. ok well i caught my girl talking to another guy on myspace sending him messages and tellhim him hes yummy and sexy callin him sweetie, she gave him her number also but i only know this cuz i logged into her account n spyed on her i guess, i dont know how i can bring it up with out sayin summtin about me spying on her can anyone help?
     
  2. all_rhodesian_reject

    all_rhodesian_reject Sonskyn Elvis

    Um

    Its over dude
     
  3. jean_genie

    jean_genie psychedelic saturday

    well you shouldnt of been spying in the first place, just end it, itll be best for the both of you
     
  4. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

    word
    don't barge in on other people's privacy
    she coulda just been joking around, who knows. I flirt like mad with people on here, but it doesn't mean anything in most cases
    but.. you didn't have the right to go and read her messages
     
  5. teh-horace

    teh-horace for your pleasure

    oh man

    that's a no-no

    yikes
     
  6. yea but thing is its he ex b/f and he lives 3 blocks away
     
  7. Orsino2

    Orsino2 Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

    You're fucked, it's over with, and she's probably a bitch anyway...

    It'd be better for you if you found someone who wasn't like that...?
     
  8. gulfwinds

    gulfwinds girasoles para los amigos

    just confront her.......it's most probably over, but if it's her ex boyfrend, she's got to give you some explanation....
     
  9. _chris_

    _chris_ Marxist

    kill the guy
     
  10. Night_Owl49

    Night_Owl49 Since 2006

    dump the bitch.
     
  11. spooner

    spooner is done.

    be a man about the situation.
     
  12. lalalamort

    lalalamort Fucked up upstairs

    fuck her ****



    Ok im really really wasted and its 5 am amn
     


  13. what do you mean by that? i really do love her, i would like to make things work
     
  14. Tanelorn

    Tanelorn Member

    most replies to this are a bit one sided.

    I think we should not be telling the original poster what to do, help him decide, he has probably allready some idea... lets see if we can help him decide what to say in what situation... how to bring it up easily etc.
     
  15. Politics are awesome

    Politics are awesome Politics suck

    why would you want to stay with her after she said those things, though? its hard to let go, but life goes on.
     
  16. Politics are awesome

    Politics are awesome Politics suck

    and thats what you get for spying. :p
     
  17. Orsino2

    Orsino2 Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

    That, too... you were probably going to find out either way.

    You really don't need someone like that, though.
     
  18. Beyond-the-Clouds

    Beyond-the-Clouds Senior Member

    WHat's your problem man? Do you think you can own a person? She has every right to talk to as many people as she damn well wants. Actually it's good because you don't have to feel guilty by not conforming to societys norms of having one partner. It's obviously not that you can't love more than one person. Parents susposedly love all their children no matter how many they have. I think you're just being possessive. And no spying.
     
  19. moon_flower

    moon_flower Banned

    YOU spyed on HER. You obviously don't trust her, and I believe to be in love with someone, you have to trust that person.
    What are you going to say? "Um, I love you but I don't trust you and I'm a spying ****."? Right....
    You're not married to the girl....you don't own her. Women flirt....men flirt. It's human nature.
    Your safest bet is to just end the relationship now. If you can't trust her enough to NOT snoop through her stuff, then you're not mature enough for the relationship.
     

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