So i am 21 years old, been out as a lesbian for almost a year now. Started a new job 6 months ago and found it hard to come out to my work colleges, i then spoke to my boss about how i felt etc and i felt more comfortable and was able to be myself which was great! Over the xmas period me and my boss ended up on a drunken night out and me and her ended up back at hers and we slept with each other. I now as super freaking out, over thinking everything and im stuck on what to do. Do i forget about it? Do i speak to her? Really need some advice from people that are out the loop and that don't know me or her
Should find whatever hole is in yourself that is causing to look outside for relief. You do that and you'll have people falling all over you.
You're obviously going to have to talk to her at some point. It might be a little weird but it might go perfectly well. She might be freaking out right now too.
Nah fuck it. Chill out, you both did it so she ain't gonna want to make a stink about it at work. Just roll into work like "sup" and slap her on the ass. Don't worry about it. If you have to just call her before work and tell her the other night was fun but you wanna be cool at work. Calm down.
Shit happens, dude. If you live your life according to some rigid framework....you're probably going to have a pretty boring and predictable life. Some of the best stuff happens when you abandon your senses.
