Hello all ! So here is my situation, a friend of mine ask me to do a threesome with her husband. He's very shy, and I don't really know what to do to make him relax. My friend just came out and really want to try to have sex with a girl and, her husband is really open and accepted for her to try. I told her i was open if she wanted, since i really love my friend (non romantic) and now her husband wants to participte (which I'm okay with), but he can't touch me and I can't touch him. He's so shy, I'm afraid he won't be in the mood, or he'll be miserable and I really don't know what to do to make him relax a bit. What do you think I should do ? What positions and scenarios would work best so everbody can have a good time ? Is it really a good idea for us to do, since we are friends and all ? I don't want her hubby to be uncomfortable afterwards because I'm still close to my friend...
communication is the biggest thing even during the threesome, the no touch sort of puts a damper on things because i mean in the heat of the moment things happen and touching just makes things that much better. have you been with another woman before? whats his participation level? standing there jerking off or getting some from her while you two fool around. I've done it where he fucks her doggy style while she eats me out i eat her out while she blows him you two could 69 with her on top while he fucks her but that might be a little too close and involve touching and his balls in your face....
Wait... what? He can't touch you and you can't touch him?!? How on earth is that supposed to work? Even Tantric sex usually requires SOME contact!
I've been with other woman before. He can hace sex with his wife, touchher everywhere, he can watch us, he and I can't have sex. I supposed to max I can push (in theory, because once we get there with the excitation, who knows what will change) to eat her out while he has sex with her, but I think that's it. I'm more stressed about the guy not relaxing at all to be honest. I know my friend is so very open but him, he can't even admit to us that he wants it. He told his wife he wanted but to my face he didn't dare say it, so I'm kind of scared he changes his mind once when get there or he won't enjoy it :/
Well, we can both have at it with his wife but he will only touch his wife, and have sex with. I respect that because I understand where he'scoming from, but that's complicate things indeed. I supposed I will focused the whole experience on his wife. But, like I said, while I know her wife wants it, I don"t know how to make him relax enough to enjoy the experience. I mean, the guy can't admit in front of me that he wants to even see his wife with me, but he told it makes him so turned on. I'm kind of afrid he will be so stressed that he won't enjoy himself :/
My wife was asked by a best friend if she would do a threesome with her husband for his 50th birthday. He had said he had always wanted a threesome. As a confidante to my wife she was aware of her exhibitionist tendencies and occasional flings. It didn’t turn out as planned. The husband struggled to get erect and his wife lambasted him telling him not to embarrass her. My wife managed to orally coax an erection out of him but there was no threesome and her friend just sat on a chair watching him fuck my wife. She rather kindly described as disappointing but really thought it was a disaster. Sometimes these things sound better than the reality. It could also turn out to be amazing so good luck.
