I might get fired tommorow

fair enough. I said my piece last night. After well over a year of her dragging up personal things about her and I on here, after all the threads and posts she's made about me over the past two months telling the world how awful I am when I hadn't said peep about her and how she was every bit as bad of a girlfriend as I was a boyfriend - it was a two way negative street, not one way with her being the only victim that never did anything wrong - for once I felt the need to stick up for myself. This all could have easily been avoided had she learned to not cut me down and leave me alone on here, but she refused to do that. She's taken every opportunity in the world to mother fuck me on these forums while I've just sat back and took it.

I agree with you and I'll leave her alone, but I doubt she'll do the same. Its ironic that this post was initially about her possibly getting fired because she's made it a full time job of hers to cut me down on here. I hope she fires herself from her forum job because I'm tired of it and want it to stop.

truce lynsey okay? You leave me alone and stop making negative posts and comments about me on here and I'll do the same.

 

after reading through this thread again, i guess i missed this the first time...i wonder what it means? care to explain why my name is being brought up? anyone...?

 

Dang, I wish I was up at 3 AM this morning...I totally missed the soap opera conclusion. LOL

I have nothing constructive to say other than...why wasn't all of this said in PM's? It seems like more could have actually been ACCOMPLISHED that way.

 

I wanted to pm Lynsey a few times but never did however you are right. I should of done that.

I don't like hurting anyone's feelings. That wasn't the purpose of my post.

I guess this was kinda like an intervention and some things needed to be said out in the open.

 

It wouldn't have anything to do w/yall posting PM type stuff in the open forums do you Think?

 

I would have pmed Lynsey about how I felt about it but I imagine it would have been in one ear and out the other. I have to agree with Ryan again on this though, Lynsey said all these horrible things about him and never (not once!!!!!!) did I see him retort to these comments. It is only fair game that he finally say something back and I don't feel bad for Lynsey other then the fact that she has alot to learn if she continues on treating herself and others the way she does now. Lynsey you are a very sweet person, I will give you that but please stop being so self centered, people can see that you are that way and won't treat you with any real respect. To be treated with respect you need to respect yourself.

 

no, my name was brought up in conjunction with hooking up with lynsey...thats personal business that i took offense too. nothing i've ever said in the open forums has indicated that i wanted to hook up with her, nothing at all....yet people want to make conclusions to that. which is totally fucked up!

and this thread started out as her saying she might get fired for standing up to her boss. all this relationship shit shouldn't have even entered into this thread. not her and dhs', nor mine and hers, nor how you guys thinks shes "me me me" and self-centered...but wtf. you guys over-analyze peoples lives on this forum way too much and take shit way too seriously. who really gives a fuck. lynsey doesn't have to appease anybody. and from what i know about her, she isn't all about "me me me" or self-center or whatever else you guys want to think. but think whatever you want, were just unknown faces on the internet.

i'm not saying lynsey doesn't take any blame in this, cuz she does. however, dont' think for a second dhs doesn't have any blame for his part. some of you guys are acting like this is all her fault, and its not. and i've seen both of them start shit throughout the forums - maybe some of you are blind to it, or dont' read in any other forums, but i know i've seen it from both of them....but i've always tried staying out of it, never thought i had any place in it...but when my name got brought up, it pissed me off. i agree most of this should be in PM's, but it didn't happen that way. whatever, i'm through and i really wish my name wasn't brought into this mess...

 

I enjoy cheese doodles.

 

Hacker how many times do I need to tell you not to bring stuff about our personnal relationship from the past, when I was 10 and you where 12.
the fact that we enjoyed cheese doodles, should have been said in a PM, shame on you
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Sorry, Cheese Doodles...

 

I certainly won't air this in public, but since THAT NIGHT, I just haven't been able to wear sling backs-sob
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This is true. However, you can do an intervention on someone who doesn't think they really have any problems.

 

I need to get a replacement set of blinders.
I just remembered how cool they are in R/L. *c*

 

Do you mean can't? If that is what you mean I know. It's frustrating. lol

 

Not that it is any of my business and I don't know lynsey personally, but I think I may have come to a conclusion on why she acts like what you all may say is: "me, me, me".

Lynsey, sweetie, this isn't meant to be hurtful...because I'm not a hurtful person. However, I think you tend to come off as a "me, me, me" type person because you are overcompensating for what might be low self esteem. By bragging about yourself and looking for validation, you are making up for something inside of yourself that you are just not happy with.

You, like, everyone else, have issues inside yourself that you are just not happy with. Instead of dealing with those yourself, you take your anger and resentment of who you are, out on others and make them hurt just like you hurt inside.

This is, of course, just a personal opinion, not meant to be hurtful or rude.

 

LOL yeah, I meant can't. Damn, I need to re-read posts before I post them LOL

 

"not biting" is right, what a joke, your next.


Too bad the 97th up and coming professional with the allowance and the book deal and the fancy clothes and the hot looks left because her internet men wouldn't stand up for her

 

I think you said it really well. That is why I said I felt sad for her because I think it is something that is more underlying.

If she comes back and reads all this I hope she reads it with an open mind and heart.

Dealing with anger and all that pain inside sucks and it's so hard to do. It's much easier to mask the problem and put a "face" on to make everyone think we are perfect but evenutally it never lasts.

 

Black mailing is threatening. You don't threaten to blackmail somebodye, you simply threaten to expose them, which is the art of blackmail. If ignorance is bliss, you've got to be one happy person.