Okay, so I am 37 years old my wife is 39. We have been married for 15 years and have 1 child. Our sex life has been horrible for all 15 years, I was her first and only but she was my 3rd. The issue is that I (not to sound like an ass) have a larger than average man-hood and she is a small person, so having intercorse for her is painful. This has led to times in out marriage where we would go as long as 6 months without touching each other. I have tried in the past to go down on her but she never let me, untill last week. Last week she finally, after 15 years of married let me give her oral. She has never had this before. Well, after kissing and teasing it took only (roughly) 5 min. before she had a full body orgasm. She told me afterwords that she had never felt that before. Fast forward to today 1 week later and she has been practically forcing me to eat her every night, sometimes 7 or 8 times a night. According to her I am giving her multiple orgasms every time I go down. I must say that I absolutely love it! Is this normal or am I just lucky? What's more is I actually get more pleasure from giving her an orgasum that I get from intercorse. I just wish it did not take 15 years to get here, I feel like we missed out on a beautful thing. Sorry about the grammar and spelling.
I'm small. One partner is freakishly huge. I'm now convinced that after virginity, ther is no such thing as too big.
She's getting off so much now, thanks to you and that is great. How are you getting your pleasure since you're apparently too big? Is she stroking you off by hand? As long as you love giving her pleasure with oral that is truly a viable sexual connection in any relationship. That said, a woman's vagina is a stretchy thing and perhaps with some dedicated work and exercises, she could learn to accommodate you in her pussy. I am fairly large (7 inches and relatively thick) and I gotta tell you, cumming in a tight wet pussy is awesome....you just don't want it to hurt for her. I would suggest buying a few different sized dildos and lots of lube and work her pussy that way, gradually getting her to relax and stretch. Just like with hard-ons, a woman's pussy stretching to accomdate a hard-on is somewhat of a combination of physical and mental factors....So wtih that in mind, I would suggest you consider maybe working with a sex therapist so you can have intercourse. You've already found an awesome connection so why not try making it more awesome. You guys are young and with so many years of great sex ahead of you, I would encourage you to keep trying to enjoy sex together in all its existing forms.
Too big...she's had a child so unless it was c/s she's had a least one thing bigger than you in her vagina. Now, it could be that you're too long, and you go too deep and that is painful. Smacking into her cervix is not fun for anyone. Have you tried finding different positions that would keep you from going in too deep? Is girth the issue? Have her try top, she can control penetration, or maybe missionary with her legs INSIDE yours, her legs together, this will help create a long pathway for you. Try going really slow and letting her control penetration as see if that helps. As for the oral, a good man will get more pleasure from pleasing his partner than only pleasing himself, so that's awesome. Keep that up. It's great that she's found something she loves that will give her lots of pleasure.
