i made love with my brother

In respect to original poster, I will not comment on post.

But, to this quote above...I have to ask.. How can you compare gays to a brother and sister having sex? There is absolutely no room for comparison..

 

i know this girl who would slip into the shower with her brother when he came to visit her from out of town, she told me she would jerk him off and the odd time give him a bj, im sure they done more then that but shes not saying.

 

I agree whole-heartedly with the first part of your statement. However, what if the 2 involved were a father/ daughter or mother/son? Even if child is over 18 and it's consentual. Or what about mother/daughter or father/son? Would you not draw any boundaries in any of these circumstances?

 

Judge NOT lest ye be judged ! Away with you sinner.. and yes you are a sinner to. NONE are free of sin but one and YOU are not him. So look to your own soul Umkazar and leave others to theirs. Offer guidence not judgement. Why even in the bible there have been incestual relationships.


As for you theplath45, Look to your heart for whats right and wrong.
On a genetics level yes you should not bear child. the storys are true that you could bear a deformed child who will suffer.
As for how I personaly feel about free sexual love between even ones kin, Its all ok. Just so long as both understand the risk and keep the trust.

 

this whole post has been quite controversal so I'm shocked that its been brought up again espiecally by the author but heyho.

I think incest can be compared to any type of sexuality that oce was taboo but isn't any more and that would include homosexuality.
sex is sex and sexuality is sexuality its only how the culture in question views it that makes it wrong.

S

 

In RE to Samheim...


I see where people are feeling this, but it's just not working for me right now. I understand the side of that statement, but I still have some issue with connecting it to homosexuality. I have been thinking a lot about this post and talked to a few people about their thoughts. There are so many things and parts that would need to be discussed for me to come to a concrete conclusion. I am just not there yet.

 

I really liked the way you said that it shows you are open minded and open to change and reflection. do pvt me anytime

blessings

S

 

i don't think your sick..i relaly do think it's sweet that you love ur brother that much to hepl hm out with anything..you are a truly sweet gurl and i wish u the best.and i hope you hear from ur brother.I send my dearest love to you as a friend

 

i like you story i think it it weird though only becuse society trained me that way they pound that into you your whole life its the only thing you know so i was taught is wrong its not bad by what i believe though im really stoned bye

 

I think that even just in the fact that you called it 'making love' with your brother, not having sex with him, helps explain yourself.

Love is love. If it's right for you two, all the power to you! Society has always told us that this is wrong, but who said that society always right?

Meghan

 

once again your post proves your a dumb-ass, GOD looks @ and punishes all sin the same. Murder, swearing, cheating, robbing, its all the same, but since this is the love and sex forum and not religious im not gonna get all biblical on your ass. And if i remeber right even the bible has incest in it.

 

I hafta agree the way you tell your story is so beautiful, dont worry about how other people think or feel about this, only how you and your brother think, I see you 2 as true love and thats what sex is suppose to be about. Maybe this isnt the love between a husband and wife, but i think this love is purer and truer than any love i have ever heard or felt...I ENVY YOU....

 

Genetic defects as a result of consanguious relationships is a proven problem. However, this is not a genetics class and I am not going to spend my time explaining the intricacies of something that is pretty much irrelevant in this situation. Contraception is something like an estimated 85% effective, so that argument would be pretty much pointless to even mention in the first place. Besides that, there's always abortion if worst had come to worst.

Having said that I will give the same advice as many on this board have aforementioned. A relationship like this can't last. It sounds like you two really care for each other and had a great time, but if the relationship were to go awry you'd have to deal with each other on several different occasions, which would be terrible to say the least. Everyone else has already said it, but I'll say it again. Break off any relationship besides a strictly plutonic relationship and cherish the memories you have if you loved the experience. Either that or move to an area with an accepting culture.

The statement that if something is making you feel guilty and self-conscious it must invariably be a sign that it's not a good relationship to have is a bit circular. In this instance the person would only feel guilty because society tells them incest is wrong not because the relationship necessarily is wrong or flawed. Whether or not incest is wrong is a subjectivity. Do I think it's wrong? Yes, but that's my own personal opinion and not the infallible law by which all should follow.

The fact that "God" says incest is wrong is funny to me. Christians are always assuming that all believe the way they believe and that God's word should be everyone's law. A lot of Christians, I.E. this Christian here, are very uneducated when it comes to their own religion. It's true that the Torah came long before the New Testament. It's fairly obvious to any educated member of society. Judaism was the first of the three Abrahamic religions. Christianity and Islam--the second and third--follow different parts of the Old Testament. God's view on incest is actually contradicted a few times in the Old Testament. In the 5 books of Moses (Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers and Deuteronomy) the contradiction occurs. This contradiction is very well known by any who've read these books.

"And Abraham said, because I thought, surely the fear of God is not in this place; and they will slay me for my wife's sake. And yet she is indeed my sister. She is the daughter of my father..." -Genesis, Chapter 20, verses 11 and 12.

And yet,...

"And if man shall take his sister, his father's daughter, it is a wicked thing" - Leviticus, Chapter 20, Verse 17.

There are 3 others damning incestual relationships in Deuteronomy. A lot of Christians might want to get back "in touch" with God, that is to say, actually know His "word". The few Christian oppressors here, before speaking of God's stance on homosexuality may want to read chapters 17-19 of Genesis involving Lot and Sodom and Gomorrah. I'm not really angry with any Christian, but those that do not verse themselves on what they claim to believe and yet take time to "throweth the first rock" are frustrating.

As for the original poster, you know my opinion and I hope I helped with your problem.

 

All I've got to say is that good orgasms can be hard to come by. (take it from me ) if society told me it was ok I reckon I'd be there in a heartbeat. Although it seems yuck to me now because Ive been told the opposite.

 

This thread disgusts me.

 

There are always things in life to learn. I will not condemn someone else's choices as long as no one is hurting (emotionally or physically) another living being. I have never heard of a situation such as this. I am too used to reading and hearing of the horrors of NON-CONSENTUAL rape and incest and how we, as the community, need to work together for change. This story, however, is completely new to me. I cannot judge her for her choices. I may have my opinions about it, but they very well may be those that have been ingrained in me from society. It's definitely interesting. Like I said, I have no concrete feelings about this, nor may I ever. Of course I have a first reaction. Now, I am just trying to figure out my feelings about an issue like this.

 

Ok .. but why ??

 

i have a brother to ,and the thought of having sex with him makes me sick to my stomach.youre discusting and sick.would u fuck ur daddy aswell?or go down on ur mum?get help eew.

 

Just because you're not into your brother doesn't mean its sick for her to be into hers.

Consensual incest is just like homosexuality in that it's this taboo thing that much of society disapproves of. In the case of incest it's basically all of society that disapproves. I think male homosexuality is bizarre and I just don't understand why any guy would look at another guy's hairy ass and say to himself "I just gotta get me some of that!" But just because I don't understand it doesn't mean I should condemn it. If what you are doing does not harm anyone, then it can never be wrong, no matter how many people disapprove of it. Consensual incest harms no one. Homosexuality harms no one. Therefore neither is wrong.

Kelticman

 

The only thing that makes me sad is how peopel are sayign if you don't agree 100% then you are a religous zealot and not cool. We all dont' agree on the same thing. does that makes us all bad because we dont' agree/ For those who dont' agree to war, does that makes you scum and heartless because you dont' like war? when you say thigns like that, it makes you (in your eyes) just as bad as those who dont' agree with you.