I'm submissive with very few limitations and love being a pleaser. Just tough in my area to find a Take Charge guy with a small cock who has his own place or is daring for outdoor locations.
I'm hearing a lot of submissives say that they can't find a guy who'd be dominant with them, and they'd prefer such a guy to have a big, thick dick and, as one submissive I know once said, "Take me and use me like the whore I am!" I don't have the right mindset to be a "take charge" guy or a submissive one.
Its nice being on the recieving end for a change of pace. My wife ate up the power associated with being dominant. I willingly submitted to her needs and desires. Mind blowing orgasms convinced me that I didn't have to be some macho idiot and being the one in charge. My wifes photography hobby, at the time, opened up a new avenue of pleasures. I never regreted anything that wound up being a sweaty cum covered extravaganza. If my wife was up for it, I was in.