I just need to vent this out.

Haahaa, I love this guy! (in a completely non competitive heterosexual way earthy )

 

Yeah. Just skirt the issue with more insults. In my experience when somebody has nothing intelligent or constructive to say, they spout shit out of their mouth. That's the only thing that I have seen from you.

Funny, I was thinking the same thing. Maybe you should have added in "immature" to that description. Because you sound like a little kid screaming at the top of his lungs for no reason. Problem is, you're not smart enough to figure out what you're screaming for.

I've seen many people like you. Maybe one of these days you'll figure out how to act like a human being. Maybe you'll try to stop controlling others and gain a little control in your own life. Because I'm pretty sure that's where everything stems from. Either you're inept, lazy, or just too ignorant at this point to realize just how fucking hypocritical you have become.

 

if im ll the above that you stated why dont you get off my dick and stop posting on this thread. it doesnt concern you.

 

I think that this whole thing is just a lack of communication between these two people. Maybe some people think she shouldn't have to ask or get permission to do something like that, but at the same time, it upsets him and disrespects him and his feelings are just as valid. No one here has the right to insult either party also. In my opinion, if I had done something like that ( I don't because my boobs are nothing to be proud of) and my man got upset, I would feel bad and apologize- which she has done. this would probably be over by now if other people didn't go on rants and raves on her behalf. Not that I don't agree with you opinions, phillyrp315, because I do, but I also think about what this guy is feeling right now. I think making a bigger deal out of this is a big mistake. She did something that he felt was disrespectful, she felt bad, yet felt that he controlled her a bit. That's something they need to talk about. I hope TF can forgive her, knowing she didn't do it to hurt him or piss him off, just to show off a part of her body she's proud of. Even if you don't agree, hopefully you two can put it behind you. Things could be worse!! And I think she's lucky to have a guy that cares so much.

I know that this thread doesn't concern me either, but I thought my opinion wasn't too harmful.

 

You're right. It doesn't make much sense to keep at this, as it doesn't concern me. I apologize.

That being said, in a small way it does concern me (and everyonewho visits these PUBLIC forums).

First off, something was posted to a public forum. People responded and offered their take on the situation. Nothing wrong there. Isn't that the way this place is supposed to work? It's this...

that made me respond. This is the sign of someone who needs to grow up. Attacking people for offering their advice. The post that spawned this response wasn't mean or insulting. Sorry dude, but you post stuff to a (again..) PUBLIC forum, what the hell do you expect? And considering what is generally being said about EVERYBODY in his statement, how do you expect someone not to comment?

Someone posed a very simple question to him. Nothing harsh in it, just a very insightful, thought-provoking question that could easily apply to many people's relationships. He responded with name calling and accusations.

Might not be my personal concern, but it is in a forum, and I have the right to post my opinion's as much as anybody else. Nothing pisses me off more than ignorant hypocritical people attacking others because they offered their opinion. His argument about it not being anyone's concern became invalid the moment he posted.

I truly hope you 2 work things out.

I'm done.

 

I 100% agree with you. I just thought we might leave this one alone.

 

I understand where Terrapin_Flyer's coming from. If my man posted a picture of his dick on the internet without telling me about it, I'd be upset...because I like knowing that he shares his body with me and I share mine with him. I don't need a bunch of horny fucks oogling at him. So yeah, I agree with Terrapin. I don't think he's being controlling of Eryn...I just think he loves her and cares.


They'll get over it and move on. They're in love. This is just a little problem...nothing to get too bent over.

 

i think TF has just in feeling what he feels
he doesnt want ppl gauking at his girls body - the same reason most ppl whouldnt post a picture of their child naked, or themselves
these are extremly and unnessisarily perverted times these days, and what mature ppl like you and i call art and beuty isnt appreciated these days like it should be
and i know alot of ppl who r protactive of that
who wants to feels that theyre a bunch of nasty horny guys around jackin of to there girls picture ? i trust there are more ppl doing that than lookin at your picture as art
i guess it cant even go as so far as like y dudes dont want there girls to be strippers or y dudes wont date porno actresses
i dont think its over reacting at the least but i also feel its something that he should and could get over since he loves her and she definatly loves him
i doubt that you two wont be able to work it out in the end since you loved each other so much that you wanted to get married
i think your reasons were innocent and pure and i kno you 2 can work it out you shouldnt be so miserable over this

 

This kinda reminds me of a situation I found myself in a couple of years ago. I was in this strip club with my boyfriend and our best friend Mike. We were sitting right up front in pervert's row. My boyfriend left to go somewhere.... so me and Mike are still sitting upfront when the announcer guy says it's amature night and asked if there were any ladies in the crowd interested in winning some concert tickets. I totally was not goinjg on stage so I just sat there. That's when the announcer guy says "Girl in the front row with the dreads? What's your name?" My stupid friend mike yelled "Thea!" So then the friggin announcer guy was like "Come on Thea! Get on stage!" And I was yelling "no way!" So then the ass with the microphone gets the whole friggin club (about 150 people) to start chanting my name. "THEA! THEA! THEA!" And I know now it was stupid, so I flashed them my boobs. Just then, my friggin boyfriend walked in. He said he could hear the chhantihng my name from out of the club, then he walks in and sees me holding up my shirt.
He dragged me outta there so fast..... lol.
I know that's a bit more extreme, but the thing is, your boyfriend obviously loves you a lot and doesnt want to share even a little bit of you with anyone else. You can't blame him. You seem like an amazing chick. You didn't do anhything wrong, and neither did he. He's just still in the heat of the moment. Give hiim a couple of days and...."THIS TOO SHALL PASS" It's true. I even got that tattoed on my wrist.
CHEERS and hope I helped.