i just had the craziest few hours...

That is so so so sad. You should make some food and take it to them. Is someone taking care of the kids?

 

omg, thats extreme, crazzy sorry to hear that

 

How does a grown man drown in a pool? That's crazy shit! Poor little ones.

 

yeah like there family is in a messed up situation, the kids are at their grandmothers right now and i am going over there to feed the dogs and take them for walks. i don't think food is ganna help the mom is a health freak

 

they think it was a heart attack.










probably from drugs.
but my mom said it was a heart attack, and his wife thinks it was a heart attack due to drugs.


i went over there like 10 minutes ago and her car was there but she wasn't

 

rest in peace


best wishes to the kids

 

Omg that's so horrible!! Poor kid

I'd freak the fuck out if I saw a dead drowned body..

 

dude i know, my neighbor at my old house died in front of me on a stretcher before school when i was like... 12 or 13.

 

Holy shit! How do you handle that? Haha.
I cant hardly bear to look at a dead person in a casket at the funeral home!

 

i just want to say that this sounds like a remarkably insensitive statement from someone who has not yet encountered a profound life experience before. i could be wrong, of course, but since you appear young i'm gonna assume im right, and when you do have such an experience i hope it doesn't melt your brain.

death is something that is fair. if you are a loved one left behind it doesn't seem that way, but seeing a dead body, whether recently dead or made up at a funeral home can be shocking. I fount my firstborn son not breathing and cold when he was 3 months and 11 days old. i started cpr before remembering 911. every moment of that morning is etched in my mind, it never leaves you, but it is endurable. we all die, death is final, there is no sense arguing with it. you pick up the pieces of your heart that left a void, you try to remember all the good times and put those slivers back in. I thank my son for leaving when he did, because if he had been any older, any smarter, had any more personality it would have been harder for me to let go. If he wasn't a twin i doubt id be here now. his brother is the joy in my life.
in the words of Boober: I have great sympathy. The Grim Reaper comes to us all.