i have never entered my penis in my wife vagina,

Thank you all for your replies.

Sorry for the spelling mistake for the Vaginismus.

I do not drink Alcohol at all.

I tried back passage, but she does not want it, but again i never had got it through all the way.

I will have ti find out About the Cock Ring.

 

Further comments, yes i did push harder, as my wife said and i know, as i used to go full strength. I can feel my wife trying to push me out and when i press hard and she just can not relax, as she feels she is going to get hurt.

I will try a cock ring, can this be purchased from the local chemist

I will try turkey baster, something like Artificial insemination (Intracervical insemination).

The child is mine, as there is no doubt, as the way the sperm was inserted, is like i injected into her vagina, but the penis never entered her Vagina.

 

I just saw a show on this like a week ago. The couple were on the verge of divorce, there was a sex therapist who actively particiapted in sexual attempts by them and helped the woman use increasingly larger plugs to get her used to it slowly. The problem was that it was very painful for her and in addition to that she had the idea that sex was very bad instilled in her all of her life and now that she was married she could not change her view of sex and as a result she did not really want to participate in it. This doctor got them straightened out and they eventually moved on to a normal sex life and they were all a bunch of happy fuckers in the end.

I would encourage her to use the plugs and if she won't try then you may want to consider escaping that hell. No one can say you haven't already put forth the effort after this long. Dude you need some pussy, you ARE missing out.

 

No penetration?

 

Thank you all for your replies.

What is large plugs or is it the applicator , whihc our therpaist given they had 3 sizes small, meduim and Large like the shape of the penis.


Yes Steve no penetration At ALL.:banghead::banghead:

My wife use to go Regular to see the Therapist locally. I could not go due to work pressure and difficult to keep getting time off.

We have made a new appointment with a new doctor, as this will be 1st appointment and we will have to see what he is like, as the Local Doctor made the appointment, as my wife pressured the Doctor, as she recieved the information from the Therapist Secretary.

She does not have any sexual trauma. She never had sex with anyone except myself, as i am the first partner. We were both Virgin at the time of our Marriage.

She has never used Tampons, as she use the pads.

I will keep you up to date with the Doctor appoitnment.

 

As a former Virgin who was in a similar but not exact predicament, I can say that I was verbally abused and was told that Sex was bad, and if I had it I would go to hell. Once I met my boyfriend, we would have heavy make out sessions but I refused to let him enter me. So one day, he took me to a spa, where I relaxed, followed by dinner and dancing and then took me to a nice hotel where after he gave me a massage, we slowly made love and that got rid of my fear of sex.

My suggestion if you haven't already tried it is to try and spend the day doing things she loves, just you and her.

 

Try finger or G Spot penetration of the vagina before you try inserting your penis. Have her relax with soothing music, alcohol, or pot, which should relax her. Tell her you love her 100 times...

Are you from the Middle East?

 

i dont understand why this is still going?

 

I have never entered my penis in a beauty contest. I have never entered my penis in a class action lawsuit. I have never entered my penis in a talent show.

 

shit attracts flies

 

Time to move on...

 

update.

We went to see the Doctor who specialises who can not have children.

She was shocked that i am still the partner for all these years.

She said she can not have the IUI, as if she can not do the smear test then she will not be able to do this IUI self incemination at the hospital clinic. Which cost £800.00.

The next option would be IVF, as this sedate you and numb you and you can not feel the pain, as this way she may able to get pregnant and this will cost £3000.00.

We will try first with Turkey bastor and take it from there.

I am just in a situation helpless and my wife i feel sorry for her for the problem and i have never ever experienced proper sex, as we have only done foreplay, basically it.

 

Just an update.

My wife went to the therapy, but it did not work. We have brought Turkey bastor and tried this week, so hoping on the result to see if she gets Pregnant.

Doctor said to do an IUI incemnation of sperm, she can not be sedated, so this is out of the question, as this was the cheapest option. Ivf is going to be prices around $7500 usd.

I hope the Turkey bastor does the trick and she can only enter 1/2 inch of Turkey bastor and no more than that, as it hurts her. She does it herself, so she can control herself.

I will keep you upto date if she get pregnant, but my penis has still not inserted her.

 

Stop it u have bad wife she bad noooooo

 

so it sounds like your wife is just afraid of sex hurting?
have you fingered her? if you can get her wet enough to comfortably get 2 or 3 fingers up there then she'll have no problem with dick...

 

I am not sure how your wife can have a child (which was probably much larger than your penis, me thinks) and not be able to take a penis in her vagina. Babies come out the same hole, if I am not mistaken. It must be a mental fear of penetration, probably due to some type of abuse as a child I would guess (although I might be wrong). Then there is the fact that you want another child, but you can't have vaginal sex. Mind boggling. You can become foster parents and take care of children and adopt them out of the foster care system fairly inexpensively in the States, and probably wherever you are at too. There are plenty of unwanted children looking for homes.

Vaginal penetration is actually a very small part of sex. You can both pleasure each other with 4 limbs, a mouth, and your brain. A well executed hand job is about the most intense sex I have had, feels much better than vagina or mouth, and ends up with the same result, sperm spraying all over the place. So there is really no reason to have a dull sex life just because your wife can't accept a penis in her vagina.

Ah yes, flies attracted to shit. I just couldn't help myself

 

Please try using lubricants my friend. It helps alot!

 

Am I the only one who hears the voice of "Bahboo" from Seinfeld in my head when I read the original post?

 

lol I was thinking the same thing!!!!!!!I started to get headache reading this post. Being a writer, has its own OCD points.

Dude, first own an English dictionary, Grammar Book and Thesaurus for when you type to anyone or anything.

Second, Do paternity test cause that child might not be yours or try Maury Show..lol (sorry had to add the show).

Third, instead trying to be direct (trying to penetrate)..try foreplay with feathers, whip cream and eat it off her...playing with sexual experiences without actually going all the way.
Think of ways to relax her and captivate her like for example Shakespeare would do, that means write poems (maybe in your native tongue), take her dancing in a exotic place, romance her in picnic under the stars.

You both so focus on either doing the act or having a kid..you probably forgotten what its like to whisk-fully fall for each others embrace. Depending on your situation, city, home try to adapt to them as you try to romance her which in turn will relax her into being with you fully.

Goodluck!!!

 

So... you've gotten her pregnant and your penis has never entered her vag. You jack off into her? Anal sex spillage? test tube babies? wtf. Role play? umm,,, mdma.... yes... yes! Get busy my friend.