I have finally accepted that I'm gay.

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by Sleeplessvagabond, Jul 28, 2023.

  1. Sleeplessvagabond

    Sleeplessvagabond Newbie

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    I had made a post on here asking if I was gay, and I hinted to the fact that coming from a religious background made me repress my sexuality. I have finally have left that behind me and I have accepted that this is who I am. I find that I am not attracted to masculinity, but men who look very feminine or who can pass for women to be very attractive. A femboy basically.

    It took a very long time to get here but I honestly don't believe that there's anything wrong with who I'm attracted to.
     
  2. Steveh

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    Not at all, enjoy them
     
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  3. Piobaire

    Piobaire Village Idiot

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    There's nothing wrong with who you are or who you are attracted to.
    It wouldn't surprise me if your previous religious affiliation left some deep psychic wounds.
    I wish you healing, self-compassion, and peace.
     
  4. Maccabee

    Maccabee Luke 22:35-38

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    I had a similar journey in accepting my sexuality. It's been a little over 2 years since I've accepted myself.
     
  5. Barefoot Scout

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    Hurray! Of course there's nothing wrong about a guy liking men - whatever their shape or size might be! Being gay means that you harbor a lot of loving feelings for your fellow man - and you're willing to share them!

    I also come from a religious background that is disapproving of homosexuality and gay sexual intercourse. Of course, the conflict between the faith I was brought in and my undeniable sexual orientation caused a lot of strife in my past. Ideally, religion and sexuality should coexist, but religious dogma sometimes doesn't allow for such an option. In such cases, repression will only result in resentment and sorrow, so difficult choices have to be made... and you've made the right one!

    Now, leave all of your baggage behind and be the person that you truly are - and feel free to have some fun! :D
     
  6. DaveTheBiGuy

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    While I can admit that a femboy or twink can be cute, there's a very good chance they're probably just like me... A total bottom with men
     
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  7. Biricua

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    I am just not accepting myself and plan to come out next year
     
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  8. Biricua

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    *now
     
  9. SapphicHippie

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    So have I! It's something I had been struggling with for many years but now I'm at a point where I'm more comfortable with myself. It's exhilarating.
     
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  10. Peqman

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    I am on my way to accepting. Last night was the first time that we were spending time as couple with other people. What made it easier was that the other couple are gays. I am really confused. It is so weird because we have had sex for months and I see thisbas a true relationship. Yesterday made me feel a bit emotional. Horny, too... And very, cery confused. Positive experience anyway .
     
  11. wilsjane

    wilsjane Nutty Professor HipForums Supporter

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    Having worked in the theatre for more than 60 years, I have been around people with almost every sexual orientation on the planet, so it never bothers me in the slightest..... The following may be of interest.

    Around 90% of the horny women who ask for cock pictures online, are actually gay men.

    Homophobia and closet gay are one and the same thing.
     
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  12. Native Vee

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    No sweetie nothing wrong with it at all...... I hope you find someone and are happy soon!

    Peace and love to you....
     
  13. RIJACO

    RIJACO Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I'm not trying to label you or anyone else, but I just read an article about Gynesexuality - its someone who identifies as being attracted to feminine traits, regardless of whether that person identifies as a woman or man.
     
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    Why wait? Think of all of the good cock you could be sucking and missing out on , because of your procrastination .
     
  15. Native Vee

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    Nothing wrong with beng Gay :)

    Love is beautiful!!!!!


    Love who you want to and dont ever give up :)
     
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