I Have A Recurring Dream That I Would Like Yo Know What It Could Mean Please Help

I have been having this same dream for 3 years ever since I had my DNC done after losing my daughter 5 1/2 months into my pregnancy and in this dream many of my deceased family members even ones I have never met or was so young when they passed away that I am unable to remember them... Anyways in this dream these family members and a few deceased family friends come to me one by one and tell me that I am pregnant and to start taking better care of myself and my unborn child... This dream happens every night as it has for 3 years... The exact night I began having this dream was November 18th 2011 the night before my mother's birthday... Many nights when I have this dream I wake up and can hear the faint sounds of a crying infant... One of the main family members that visits me in this dream is my Great Grandmother Maxine who passed away when I was 6 months old and when she shows up in lying dream she is always holding the hand of a beautiful little girl with short blonde curls and the brightest blue eyes I have ever seen the little girl introduced herself to me the first night I had the dream and I woke up crying when she did... The little girl introduced herself to me as Arabella Marie Rose Thompson which is what I named my little girl before I lost her... Iny dream she is about 2 every time... Well when she and my Great Grandmother visit they tell me to get ready to bring a beautiful blessing into the world and that the unborn child is a not one but two. They tell me to expect twins a boy and a girl. Then they leave and My Great Grandfather Nick appears and says Tabitha you always had your father's temper but your mother's heart and you are going to make a wonderful mother... Your children will respect you more than you respected your own mother unfortunately you will have the same fate your mother had... You will raise your twins alone and in doing so will gain a higher level of respect for your mother because you will finally understand what she went through raising you on her own... After my Great Grandfather leaves my sister comes and in my dream I'm crying by this point and she says to me... My lovely little sister although we never got to meet and do the things sisters do I am always here for you all you have to do is think about me and I will come. She also says to me you are almost 21 years old and you have grown into a beautiful young woman who is finally learning to stand on her own 2 feet in the world and you will be an amazing mother... Your children will look up to you as much as other people's children look up to you... After my sister leaves me I'm still crying and my mother's friend Marsha who was like an Aunt to me and a sister to my mother appears and says to me baby girl do not cry because you are far to beautiful to soak your face in tears and worry... I know you are afraid that you will have a miscarriage with these 2 babies as well but I promise you God has been watching and he says it's time to give you children and show you how strong you really are because you have not been as strong as you should be and you have great strength and God has a purpose and a plan for you and it begins with those unborn babies your son will be born first 3 minutes before his sister and his name will be Matthew Alexander Brown and then your daughter will be born and her name will Be April Faith Brown... The Reason you will name your son that is because Matthew is the name of a book in The New Testament of the Bible and Alexander has always been a name you adored... Your daughter will be named April Faith because you will find out you are expecting in April of 2015 and you will choose the middle name Faith because you gave your life to God and have a new outlook on life and you have Faith that everything is going to be fine now that you have given all your troubles to The Lord... Your daughter will be a spitting image of you but your son will be the spitting image of his father with whom your son will spend most weekends with... She also said I know you are afraid child but your time has come...
I have had the dream every night for the last 3 years and seeing as my 21st birthday is November 11th which is 3 weeks from Tuesday I am a little frightened because after my birthday the rest of my year seems to fly by so quickly and that means April is just around the corner... So to anyone who reads this please explain to me what it means and if it is possibly a premonition to my very near future.. I'm frightened I have tried to figure it out myself before I asked for help and couldn't do it and the last person I asked for help had no idea either and just told me to pray about it and ask God to give me the answers... I tried that to so please someone anyone please explain what this could mean