I hate my downward curved member It feels like a curse; I can’t seem to have face face-to-face sex with women and it’s shattered my confidence entirely. I can’t even be bothered to look at women, much less flirt with them anymore. It’s shaken my confidence entirely. From what I can surmise, most women prefer (or are at least accustomed to) upward curved or straight penises so. Those shapes easily allow for cowgirl, sitting straddle and missionary. With my downward curve I can only do prone bone & doggystyle (barely). I saw 2 urologists and both have concluded that it isn’t peyronies. It’s congenital. I can either pay for an expensive penile straightener or undergo surgery. The latter both urologists advise against. I really hate this curve, because it also looks impotent. If that isn’t enough; it leans to the left a bit, so when I enter a woman I have to angle it in a weird fashion. Not cool, nature.
Pissed, I too had a congenital downward curve which was pretty drastic. I was always afraid to even have sex because I thought a woman would laugh at it, and was a virgin until I was 22. Fortunately my first partner (future wife) was understanding, and thought it was great, but by then, through manipulative masturbation, I had managed to lessen it somewhat. Over the last year I have discovered that using a penis pump will also help straighten out a curve too. You may want to invest in a cheap ( you don't need an expensive one) pump setup, but make sure to get one with a gauge, and don't go over 5Hg of pressure. Any more questions let me know. My present curve is only slightly downward, and trust me, a woman is going to love it. There are many shapes out there, ours falls into the 15% category.
I sympathize with you two guys, I am pissed because a lifetime of masturbation has given me Peyronies, my problem is an upwards curve that has become parallel with my belly, even jerking can be difficult, I tried massaging my penis with castor oil which helped quite a lot, as I am an elderly guy I usually ejeculate with a semi hard penis.
Do you think masturbation has given you Peyronies? Is it painful to pull it away from your belly? I remember seeing my brother sleeping nude when he was 22, he was hard and his penis curved up. I was fascinated with its shape, especially since mine had such a radical downward curve then. What is your age now? Have you tried using unrefined coconut oil as a lube, it moisturizes at the same time. What about pumping to try straightening your curve?
I was told by a urologist to ejeculate every day to avoid getting prostate cancer, my wife nearly freaked out when I told her, don't worry I am willing to help myself as well as making love to you. Worst advice I ever got, it was okay for a few years, then 45 yrs old, I became totally dependent on porn to get my rocks off this also wrecked my sex life with my wife, last time I came in her was 2005, she died four years ago, I was able to satisfy her sexually but would spend hours looking at porn in order to cum myself, as time went on it got harder to cum so I had to just about punish my penis to ejeculate, I am positive that brutal masturbation caused the peyronies this the upward curve in my cock, after my wife died in 2020 I did not bother about sex only ever masturbating half a dozen times in three years, only recently did my hormones stat raging again, I am in my late 70s and have masturbated with cum twice in that last week, sadly I needed porn to get off with, ordinary porn that used to turn me on does nothing so after nearly four years I still need way out porn that one time I would never watch to cum. My advice it don't over do watching porn it will stuff your friggin life up.
I think that urologist was a moron! You don't need to ejaculate"everyday" to maintain prostate health, I'm so sorry you ended up with that advice. These so-called doctors should have their licenses taken away, they ruin people's lives with bullshit advice like that! As for the porn, I totally agree. I was looking at that stuff for a while myself, and yes, eventually you do start looking at things you wouldn't normally look at. Fortunately I got away from most of that, although I do looks at some pics, no videos, of nude mature women on ocassion. I believe I developed psychological ED over time because of my wife's reluctance to initiate sex. Initiating sex is always (99%) my job, and after a while it becomes mentally frustrating. For a few months, over a year ago, I noticed I wasn't getting nocturnal erections, or morning wood. I found out that using a VED could possibly help restore those, and after purchasing an inexpensive setup (with a gauge), and using it a couple months, my nightly erections returned. I have noticed also that with prolonged use (over a year) that my curve has straightened even more. I do like having somewhat of a down curve so I hope I don't lose all of it. I hope you'll think about giving pumping a try, without using porn, as it might possibly re-train your brain/penis into erections without that porn stimulus. It never hurts to try, that is if you want? I know you're in your late 70's, but that's just a number, it doesn't mean it's all over! I'm very sorry to hear about losing your wife, that must've been very difficult, and I feel for you, but you are still here.
I think excessive masturbation caused me to get Peyronies, I remember jacking off years ago that I felt a cracking feeling in my shaft, it also felt like I was pissing razor blades when I ejeculated, after a few my cock was pointing up to the sky, parallel with my gut. For several months I tried massaging Cold Pressed Castor Oil on my cock, twice a day for about 20 Minutes, it di help but I found that my foreskin started to return, also the oil actually creates collagen, my cock got a whole lot fatter, I was pleased about that.
It would work while doing it doggie style. Your downward pointing penis would stimulate her G spot and she would love it.
