i hate fu**ing men

I want chicken.

 

i'm still confused

 

Is there anything not typical of that?

 

fixed

 

not really haha, i'm always confused

 

Hey now.

Ummmm isn't a cock a chicken? Hmmmm....

 

I think I truly define "confused" though after the other night.

 

don't let them do it and walk away and get someone a bit older who doesn't just want to fuck.

 

She really just needs to read my first post on here (this thread).

That was thoughtful for me or anyone on here and true.

 

I hope I never have to date anyone else ever again. It does suck and I have never had so much fun in a relationship past the dating point before.

 

I've been on two "dates" ever.

I tend to get involved with friends. The two "dates" I had, I didn't like and yeah... the people I know who either want to play that whole game (dating websites and this and that) or feel they need to.. I don't envy them from what I've been told.

 

so true.

 

I asked my bf out first. I said literally 'hey, ya wanna take me out?' or something to that extent. i think it's fucking hillarious

 

either they are polyamorous anda re just being honest with you
or they want 3 cakes and to eat them too. kind adepends on their attitude about it and how they tell you

i had a first dates with like 3 polyamorous guys in a row, it was a bit funny. 2/3 of them didnt tell me til the third or fourth date, only one told me before we met up - which i respected a lot more. that guy i even dated for a while and dont feel bitter about, unlike the one who sprung it on me late in the game (and was an ass about it, whole other ball of wax though)

anyway. why not ask about their thoughts on monogamy on the first date when youre querying them about other stuff like religion and things they want to accomplish and such?

 

Well think about it.
Why should some guy cut himself off from all other women if he hardly knows you.Why should he pass up the chance of someone perfect ( the "woman of his dreams" etc etc) for someone he hardly knows.

At the end of the day , most guys have to do all the running , tolerate all the games , do the proving themselves , paying for the dates etc etc - searching for someone whos really right for them.Then its "ahh I'll let him sweat to get to 2nd base then screw his friend if I get the chance instead".

( Ok some guys like me , have woman hassling *them* all day long instead )

Girls on the other hand , the culture is that they can get lots of guys "serious" attention quite easily.So all a guy is doing is being honest with u and seeing that he has a reasonable chance of meeting enough women suitable for him.
Its a numbers game - and much easier for girls to play their version of it.

Having said that , it can get pretty boring.The screwing brightens it up.
Oops who said that

 

Good idea. You could be the next Anna Nicole Smith

 

Haha. Cool

Most of my girlfriends are like that.

 

I have met plenty of men that want one women
actually I have only met a few that wanted to date openly... eh
good luck finding better men

 

Wha!

 

i was dating several guys at once. i wasn't sure who i preferred at that time, so why should i not date other people? why shouldn't they? then i met dave and that was that. i don't see the problem. it's not like a date is an instant contract of monogamy and commitment.