I got hustled for $20 cabfare by this married chick last night

yes. and i don't give a flying fuck about their overpriced shoes and purses. *sigh* i really resent the ruination of a good night because some attention whores don't know how to act like grownups in public and think everyone want to fuck them.

 

oh! and they're rude and say awful things they think we'll find charming because they look like sluts! sometimes i'm terribly embarassed to be a female. "you should treat me lke a lady 'cause i have a pussy and i won't let you touch it if you don't treat me like the princess i am!" gtfo.

 

I can't see what the trick is? If she went straight back to were she came from.
Seems like she got cold feet and wanted to go home.
Here, most women atleast have enough to get them home...sponge the lads like crazy for everything else.

 

that's totally irrelevant to my rant, except the sponging part. what is it about women thinking men owe them a drink?


btw, i never paid for drinks when i was partying except i'd occaisionally buy a few rounds to repay the favor. but i was usually invited, i didn't invade and assume.

 

You should've let her call her husband to come get her and promptly locked yourself in your apartment to avoid any violence or drama.

 

It wasn't meant as a response to your rant.
Some men are whores and women know that they can play them, and why not?

 

just keep it in the appropriate venues. we all know which ones they are. i'm all for people having a good time, so long as they don't fuck up everyone around them.

 

That's awesome!

If I say something like this I'm accused of being bitter (which means I'm a loser) or of not getting laid enough (which must mean I'm less of a man) or of being a whiny wuss (which means I'm a girl and no wonder no woman ever wants to fuck me).

Women don't even bother calling me sexist anymore. Putting my masculinity and worth as a human being into question is enough for them.

 

ugh. i read this whole thread with the intent to eventually post this, but then you beat me to it by 3 posts.

 

Agreed.

 

Hmm.Lots of issues in that.
"Beerskanks" - thats girls who scrounge drinks in England, something I treat quite humourously.I use a range of one-liners to handle em.That might wake em up,or I'll just see em as sad cases.

Really, do u wanna meet girls your level?ie switched on professionals.Or girls without a proper paying career looking to screw or sponge cash all night?

If me and some friends have bought some champagne in a bling bar, then *if* a pretty girl is fun and stuff,then I might let her have a *small* glass.
Then fuck her off after if I ain't getting the right vibe.Thats part of *that* type of night out.

But if I wanna meet girls with careers/genuine ambition etc who are good, and fun, I would never think that I need to spend money in a bar.Quite the opposite infact.*Supplication* is the word- remember the H man here...?

To me, I'd rather be surrounded by good people than poor commodities.
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Secondly, with a married girl,what exactly was the game plan for the night?I dunno whether u should be bitter?You all had the night out,sounds like the girls enjoyed it.Maybe she was too hammered to remember the taxi cash?Who paid for the drinks and stuff?

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3rd pt, have u thought of say a "business plan for social life" or sthg like that?I'm sure some people can find life a living hell in NY.But also
there's alot of things to explore to find your unique niche too..

 

I did not read most of this thread.And I don't like to generalize but alot of truth to this.--There are 2 types of women givers and takers,stay away from the takers.-----AND never put a lady just because she may be attractive on an undeserved pedestal--pretty women are a dime a dozen.

 

When you troll the sewer you going to catch a turd.

Me

 

No. I wasn't trying to fuck her and I did not spend much money on drinks. If anything, I was being bought drinks the whole night.

The only thing I resent is being stiffed for cab fare without proper warning. Obviously, she thought if she exposed her vulnerability and simply asked for money to get home, I would have rejected her solicitation.

Resso- So-called "professional" women are just as bad with the drinks issue, in my experience. A pretentious whore will be a pretentious whore. I don't care if they have money in the bank or not. They seek validation that way.

I really feel kind of left without a great many options from women I meet. But that's because in this town, there are no real communities. And that would be the ideal way to meet women --- through friends, neighbors, co-workers, family-friends, etc.

But this world is really made upside-down when real estate and financial speculation take the place of a productive economy and actual neighborhoods with long-standing residents and small businesses.

I feel relationships are directly affected because of this.

 

My "business plan for social life" is simple:

1) keep meditating

2) finish the project I'm working on so I can work away from a computer and as a part of a team

3) move where my best friend lives

4) hopefully one day live in (build?) a society that prizes community and productive, solidarity-based work (to the extent our current global system still allows for their existence).

 

you know i love giving you a hard time. *shrugs* it's fun.

but i swear to god, i've so outgrown those chicks and watching them crash a scene that's not theirs just so that can be seen really makes me cringe. and they're so rude!

 

you're not going to find that in SoCal.

 

she'd have to earn that cab fare


otherwise i'd just laugh and turn to walk away and catch up to my friends and give them a

 

hahahaha.

 

He's in San Francisco, but we're actually thinking of moving to New Orleans together. OR, possibly Rio.