I Fucked Up Big Time

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Cinner, Jul 8, 2015.

  1. Cinner

    Cinner Members

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    a few nights ago while my gf was out working i decided to go out with a friend of ours namely this guy jake so i go back with him to his place we smoke a little we drink a little i get super faded and i guess at some point we ended up fucking cause i wake up naked with jakes hand on my boob i havnt told the gf yet because im afraid she will hate me if i do what do i do
     
  2. Mattekat

    Mattekat Ice Queen of The North

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    You need to tell her. I know it's difficult, but if she finds out later it will be much harder for everyone involved than if you come clean now.
     
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    Jake from State Farm? ..
     
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  4. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Secret secrets are no fun, secret secrets hurt someone.
     
  5. GeorgeJetStoned

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    These things don't just "happen". Booze makes it a little easier. A lot of booze means you don't know what you did. So why risk inflicting pain needlessly. However, if this relationship is really important, it's time to break off the risky association and learn not to drink so fucking much that you lose your mind. Let it be your cross to carry, not hers.

    Unless, of course, you're ready to move on and need a convenient excuse that will have her tossing you out quickly.
     
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  6. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    i'm confused

    is op a guy who fucked a guy and don't want girlfriend to know he is bi

    or is op a girl who fucked a guy and don't want girlfriend to know she is bi?

    i'm leaning female with the ''boob'' part but not sure


    anyway...if you don't remember then it didn't happen....forget about it
     
  7. GeorgeJetStoned

    GeorgeJetStoned Odd Member

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    I fkin LOVE boobs. No idea why though!
     
  8. Terrapin2190

    Terrapin2190 I am nature.

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    I'd fess up. Sure it'd be your cross to bear, but if you have feelings for this person it's the right thing to do. Tell her you're not sure what happened since you got sloshed. It may very well cause backlash, but that's what happens when you drink too much and wind up in some dude's bedroom naked.

    Just sayin.

    Maybe give her a free pass later on? idk.
     
  9. AceK

    AceK Scientia Potentia Est

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    i'd say honesty is important. if you're kinda slutty, and not known for being faithful, you owe it to your partner to at least be up front about that so that he knows what he's getting into.
     
  10. Moonglow181

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    I feel sorry for those who do not know the difference between someone who truly loves them and a slut....and sluts can come in the male figure, too.
     
  11. Beutsecks

    Beutsecks Large Rooster

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    You should not knock sluts, they are an American treasure. People travel from around the world to get their turn with a skilled American slut. America should have a holiday named for them.
     
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  12. Moonglow181

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    I don't. I am not into them is all.


    different strokes for different folks works for me....
     
  13. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    you and me both brother....sluts...skanks....slutty skanks and skanky sluts

    I love'em all


    since when does being a slut make someone incapable of knowing love.....that's just fuckin' stupid


    not everyone needs to have that comfort of having some fuckin shmuck or shmuckette to take care of us or be taken care of....ever heard of ''independence''


    also.....I still think y'all are missing the gay angle here.cinner9op0 has a girlfriend and fucked around with a guy so op is likely a lesbian mostly on account of the gf but also craves the dick too sometimes

    which is way more of a dilemma than just fucking around ....if op confesses then op is also confessing to banging dudes.....which may be a dealbreaker with the gf

    op-I still say shut up and say nothing....find a better way to tell the gf you are bi
     
  14. Moonglow181

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    ^ You have no idea and you never will. I promise you that.
     
  15. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i just don't see what kind of logical jump makes you assume you must have ended up fucking. i think it's pretty safe to guess that you started spontaneously projectile lactating at some point and got milk all over your clothes, so you took them off and jake blocked the squirting milk with his hand.
     
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  16. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    you aren't credible...your opinion is worthless to me...

    it is absurd to say that you cant love and also fuck around....the 2 don't disqualify each other....


    one is love....one is lust
     

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