I can't believe I'm in this situation. I've never even had a threesome before. It started on Valentine's Day. I had a date and the guy cancelled on me so I said screw him and went out. Ending meeting this cute guy and we hit it off and chatted throughout the night. He starts flirting with me and vice versa. Before you know it we are on the subject of sex. This guy brings out the sexual part of me very well. We chat about what we like, etc and end up agreeing want to try to make this an ongoing fwb type situation. Then he tells me has something to tell me...he has a girl! I was thinking, what the hell??? Why'd he just waste all my time like that? He ends up saying that they've been looking for a woman to join then for threesomes long term. I'm blown away and speechless. A part of me is mad and a part of me is curious. Long story short, after going back and forth I decide to agree and meet up with them. Girl is cool and super sweet. We drink and decide to hook up...girl is on her period so just watches me screw him. I loved having him but her watching was weird. Now I feel bad, like I shouldn't have done it. The guy and I have been talking every day since for like 2 hours a day. He wants me to join again but I told him I'm not into girls like that. He keeps saying it's ok, I don't have to interact with her much. I want his dick again really bad. He claims he screws his girl every day, and I'd love to have that in my life daily as I really need sex often. But this seems dangerous to be promiscuous with a couple. What if the girl ends up getting mad? He says she really liked me and is ok with us screwing. But it's not like we could ever screw alone. I can't believe I got myself into such a bizarre situation. Do I just tell him to lose my number?
"HE" tells you his GF really digs it. Eh, I'd be really careful about that one. You should have a talk with the GF one-on-one, if not this might quickly end up with tears from all involved.
I would speak to his girl and make sure she is fine with it. Then if she is you need to check yourself and keep feelings out of it. Look at it as you are getting good dick until you find a relationship. Are you attracted or at least curious about his gf? This could lead to some fun experiences. We have had a few threesomes with only a couple being long term. Usually they are flings fueled by alcohol. Still fun! Everyone should experience a good hot sweaty 3some. Don't pass up the chance. Her just watching doesn't really count. Show her your appreciation by rubbing her ass and kissing her neck and chest while he is doing her. She will probably do the same or even more while he is inside you! I am willing to bet you would love it!
Yeah, I don't know 'how' into it she is but when we got together she participated a little by holding my legs spread apart while he fucked me and spanking me while he did me from the back. We are not getting into relationship territory but the guy likes to talk more than Im used to...checks on me throughout the work day, then we sext at night. I guess I'm ok with that part as long as his girl is. He said they had done this once and he made the last girl sound like they got really close. In other words, she hung out with them, he'd help her with bills, etc but he had to let her go because she caught feelings and didn't want the girlfriend to participate. Anyways he told me last night his gf has now put limits on it and is only ok with him screwing me or the last person they'd already been with...no new people at this point. I guess I'm hesitant because I don't feel like sharing the dick? I got him really horny while texting the other night so he made the comment about going to screw the shit out of his girl now...and I'm at home dickless lol Also, although a huge part of me wants to explore this, I'm kinda insecure about my body. When we fucked I imagined the girl was seeing every flaw of my body in all these different positions :/ How do you get past that?
you have a flawed body and your fucking her guy? i think a better question would be how does she get past that.
I think she's cute and sweet but I don't feel attracted to her. Maybe I would if I had more alcohol and was actually watching them get into it? He knows I'm not bi and he says she isn't either so he keeps saying he doesn't expect us to go at it with each other. But I have no clue how you have a threesome like that. Honestly I think he just envisions we will grow to become attracted to one another and eventually do more together. I think if we do go through it we should establish boundaries. My last fuck buddy I had was a true fuck buddy--he'd call, come over, fuck me, and leave. I liked it that way. After I screwed this new guy his gf was talking about us going shopping and stuff together the next day.... :/ I guess I'm still open to this but having trouble seeing how all of this is supposed to go...
I'm a woman and as women I think we all have flaws and compare them to other women. Again, it could just be my own personal insecurities as she said I was really hot/sexy... :/
i think it was established on this site that only men use the internet and anyone that says they are female are just looking for attention from other men.
I'm new to this site and joined specifically to ask this question. I'm not sure how I'm seeking attention...just opinions and advice I guess ???
before you just come in posting on a site you should look around a bit. there is actually a thread for just that.
I have a 'high' conscience... It's says don't do it because I have a nagging feeling that I would have a hard time ending things with this couple if I wanted to stop abruptly. Also even though the girl is supposedly ok with it, the guy is initiating more convo with me than I'm comfortable with. Of course though, there's another side to me that says it'll be fun and stop analyzing everything so much.
Relax and go with it. I'd advise taking her up on the shopping invite etc and getting to know her as a person if not a lover. btw; ignore the trolls hun