I finally did it

It's been said before but I guess it's gotta be said again:

Nobody here is saying that they are honest all the time.

 

In the case of this OP it seems getting honest brought him and his ex peace and a final solution. Have you been that lucky before actually getting divorced?

 

Omg of course you pay consequences!

 

Haha yeah, that's a real drag and a suprise of course

 

no one here said they were honest all the time, but there is a difference in little white lies and huge betrayals. My partner tells me he'll clean up things around the house and he never does. I pretend I'm interested in cars when he rambles on about them so I don't hurt his feelings.

Neither of us are constantly coming up with lies to explain where we are when we are secretly fucking someone else.

Do you honestly not see the difference there?

I'm actually not trying to act like I'm better than you here - the only reason I've drawn this conclusion in the first place is I had a brief fling with a married man several years ago. Its not something i'm proud of now but it happened. I broke it off really quickly because I thought it was disgusting how easily he could lie to his wife.

 

"i mean, honestly, like, I never lie to anyone. "

 

Damn I thought I had problems!

 

This is why we watch train wrecks. It makes us feel better about our own shitty situation. :devil:

At least some derailments can get entertaining for just that reason alone. :devil:

 

fuck colors

 

Lodog, you might find that you will have consequences. Because of course, there are a lot of relationships, including your new one, that have problems and its hard to know now what you'll do then.

 

My first wife died in a tragic fire so I figure I can only go up from there.

 

Super sad. Sorry to hear that. What made you get into the relationship you just got out of?

 

Honestly.... I liked her a lot at first, but I was very used to having someone by my side and might have jumped into something too fast. Or as vanilla gorilla would put it "my dick was used to being wet and my hand was tired"

 

Did you just do the same thing.....leave her for another is jumping fast. What did you like about her and why did it change?

 

Always said " I'd only do it for the right one" don't want me to be a lier do you?

 

just getting a feeling for if you might start disliking this one too

 

Ther must be 50 ways to leave your lover.

 

get on the bus, gus. no need to be coy, roy.

 

This thread feels more real than most anything on the internet. Some of these responses are juicy