I left Carolyn after 7 years... I would have left her sooner if not for my boy.i wish I would have went about it a different way, but I found somebody really special and fell head over heels for. It was rough at first and she's finally beginning to realize that we're both better off without each other holding the other back. These last 2 years have been miserable for me. I was starting to hate the sight of her and the sound of her voice made me grimace. I'm a real son of a bitch for cheating on her though.