I Feel Lost

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by MayQueen~420~, Jun 2, 2020.

  1. MayQueen~420~

    MayQueen~420~ ♫♪♫♪

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    I find myself single again after a failed 15 year relationship. 15 of the best years of my life wasted. Now I feel lost and without a home. Literally I'm homeless and for the past 2 weeks I've been living in hotels. I have but 2 good friends left. One helps me here and there and the other I just met online. I still have my job, but it makes my whole situation more difficult as it is a work from home job that requires me to connect to the internet via Ethernet. I'm 36 and having to start life all over again without any familiar faces or friends...I feel so lost.
     
  2. Pete's Draggin'

    Pete's Draggin' Visitor

    Hi Queen
    Welcome back to Hip after a long hiatus.

    Thankfully your employed.
    Thankfully you have shelter.

    I felt lost after losing my better half of 29 years.

    I was thankful that I was employed
    I was thankful that I had shelter

    I built from this ^ , now I've found my purpose in life and no longer lost.

    Relationships should be last on anyone's list of needful things in life.

    I wish the best of luck to you.
     
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  3. MayQueen~420~

    MayQueen~420~ ♫♪♫♪

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    Thanks I greatly appreciate that. Indeed, a relationship is the last thing I am seeking at the moment. It actually felt good just to get all if that out.
     
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  4. Dax

    Dax Members

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    Gotta take some small steps first in whatever direction you choose and then take big strides then once you know where you heading start running towards it.
     
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  5. Running Horse

    Running Horse A Buddha in hiding from himself

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    Hello sister. When I found myself divorced and homeless after 8 years of marriage I found, by grace, a farm to live and work at. If you're in the u.s. amd are interested in that sort of life and help please do pm me. It has been one of the most healing places of my life.
     
  6. tikoo

    tikoo Senior Member

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    I also recommend the farming life .
     
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  7. Just for fun

    Just for fun Live your best life

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    Nothing was wasted. You have learned now move on.
     
  8. wooleeheron

    wooleeheron Brain Damaged Lifetime Supporter

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    Sometimes, its better to get angry. Not necessarily insane or vindictive or hold grudges or anything, but anger can be more useful than despair, and it sounds like you still have a long journey ahead of you.
     

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