I Feel As If My Boyfriend Wants More Sexual Experience Should I Give Him A Hall Pass

okay my boyfriend and i have been dating for around 4 years and i feel as if he wants something more. we have an amazing sex life we have sex everyday and he satisfies me a lot but i feel as if he wants more. i know he loves me but i feel as if he will always want more.

i mean i took his virginity when he was 20 and before that he was the shy nervous guy who didn't feel ready for sex. i knew him since the start of freshmen year at college and i had several casual partners and lost my virginity drunk to a one night stand and i had one night stands and friends with benefits and i also had a threesome.

we were close friends and he was well aware of my sexual history. i used to call him after i had a one night stand and he would help me up and then put me back to in my bed. i friend zoned him for a year and he liked me. i grew to like him as well. he started to tell me how he was embarrassed to talk about how he was a virgin and i understood that. and that he was upset he couldn't join in on sex conversations with people.

so later on we started to date and i took his virginity at the age of 20 and then we developed an amazing sex life. we would have sex everyday and it was so much fun having sex with him and fast forward 4 years from now we are still together and still have sex everyday and i feel as if i have given him plenty of vagina.

he always feels like he missed out. like he never got to have sex as a teen or sex in a dorm room. i feel bad for him. i mean we have sex everyday and he is the best sex i have had. but he will always want more. he wants a threesome and he knows i had one before him he feels that he deserves one. i just could never handle seeing him having sex with another woman.


i feel bad when we meet up with college friends and there talking about sex stories that he never got to experience. however after they say that i will always say in front of everyone something like we had sex last night and he made me scream like crazy. i just feel as if he wants more. i know he loves me but part of him will always resent me for having all the sexual experience.


i just feel since we are probably going to get married he will feel like he missed out and he will never be good enough for me. well that isn't true he is the best sex of my life he is the first man to make me squirt and orgasm through penetration.

i feel like around me he still sees himself as a shy inexperienced virgin and he also doesn't feel good enough for me. but he is not a shy inexperienced virgin anymore he is the man i love and the man who is giving me the best sex ever. i just feel like he will always want more and i don't want him being unhappy the rest of his life. i think its best if we take a little 6 month break were he can get all the sex with other women.

i have talked to him about it and he thinks it might be a good idea as well. i told him he can go out and sleep with whoever he wants he can get a threesome or a one night stand or a friend with benefits whatever he wants for the next six months and then he can come back to me.

 

I think if its important to experiment, but you should always make sure it something you can both handle. If it were me I'd give him a pass, but it has taken me a long time to become this open minded. Hope you get it sorted out.

 

Becuase really she wants to dump him, by doing it this way she doesnt come off sounding or looking like the villain

 

My opinion only, he will. I think men a prone to spread the seed.
If he goes and come back you know he loves you and may love your more for allowing him to have life experiences. Which everyone needs.

He may also never come back you need to accept that.

Also with the three some imagine your watching him have sex doggy style your feeling jealous, hurt a bit scared etc uneasy
But you say the first time is 10-20 min only and the whole time he is looking at you saying he loves you(advise the other person too). Sex for majority of guys can have literally 0 emotion remember, finish and walk away not caring about the girl if they don't see her again etc

Spend some time think more about it good luck.

 

My man feels the same I think! I've had a lot more partners than he has, we've had an extra girl a couple of times but he only screwed one of them after I begged him to put it in her. He don't want to run off and screw other girls He says I have to be present if he has another girl

 

well if he cant get any other girls besides you a hall pass is pointless. unless he s the alpha male who can bang lots of women then yes give him a pass just to catch up