I Dunno...So I Ask:

Partners (married, cohabitating, roommates, whatever): do you ever masturbate in plain view of Your Other, or do you wait until you're alone? I've often masturbated in my wife's company (asking first if it would bother her; and with her consent--I wouldn't just whip it out and beat off without her agreement that it was OK). I suppose it depends of the type of relationship the partners have, whether one would be inclined to say "sure" rather than "Are you fucking NUTS???"

 

No, I Have not done it in front of her, so I masturbate when she is not at home.

 

I generally wait until I am alone. If they aren't going to join me, that would be uncomfortable or at least distracting from letting myself get lost in the act.

 

I masturbate in front of my wife and alone. Alone if I'm fantasizing about someone else or doing prostate massage.
In front of here is usually a prelude to sex. I've been caught by her before and I don't mind it with one recent exception...

I don't go out of my way to hide it but I don't spring it on her either.

 

With most of my past LTRs I've masturbated with or in front of them. With my wife of 20+ years she's only watched me twice, and that was 20+ years ago.

 

To masturbate in front of you partner is really IMO something that needs to be discussed before hand ie it gets an agreement or it becomes a boundary .

 

Usually alone. But if I'm with her we frequently masturbate together. Sometimes if she's horny before I get there, she'll finish herself while I watch and stroke. I rarely finish by hand in front of her. It goes from my hand to her mouth and after I'm done my mouth goes right to her pussy. She does masturbate well. If we watch porn she has this cute way of sitting back against the headboard with her legs half up and her knees nearly together. After she masturbates for a while and she's ready to cum, she opens her knees but keeps her feet together. She'll cum like that....knees spread wide apart and hips pushing up. If I go right down on her as she cums, she'll open her legs wide apart to let my shoulders and head in between them but if she just cums on her fingers, her feet stay touching. It's cute and erotic at the same time. I like to watch her cum whether she's doing it alone in front of me or from my tongue or toy or rarely, my cock. I only sometimes finish in front of her and that's usually if she just loves the porn that's on and she wants to watch but even then, as soon as the first spurt comes out, she has to have my penis in her mouth.

 

Oh, what are you doing guys? It looks like both of you are in heaven and enjoying ultimately. I understand how erotic is when she opens her legs and lets you drink her life water springing up in your mouth. Lol

 

Mutual masturbation is a great option to add to your sex life.
Especially once the two of you become comfortable with it and you can "cut loose" in front of them.
When we first started doing it several years ago, it was mostly just lying on our backs side by side, or one participating while the other got off (rubbing etc)
Now one of my favorite things is her lying on her back, while I straddle her waist so my cock is right above her tits. She will watch, and rub my legs and play with her tits etc.
I can really get into it.... fucking awesome.

"Alone time" masturbating is a whole other thing. Basically sex with yourself. I still do that of course, as it is unrelated to my sex life with her.

 

Good comment thanks. It kinda reminded me of when my girl and I are on the bed on our backs butt to butt where it looks like she is jacking off her own dick when she is actually jacking me off. As she strokes me she talks about gay sex things knowing I get off on gay sex.

 

Good position... wife does that in the hot tub. (minus the gay talk )

 

And BTW - my first wife was completely opposite in this.
She wanted no part of it. Way early in our marriage, I started pumping myself a little while giving her oral... she sat up and said "what are you doing??!! "
Like it was somehow perverted or something.

 

DITTO! It sucks

 

My ex and I used to masturbate together sometimes and it was great. As the years rolled on she lost more and more interest in sex and din't like to see me touching myself. The early weree amzing though and loved when we would watch each other get off. Many times it led to much more fun.

 

never have...... always wait until i have the house to my self then I don't even do it that often....... however my husband thinks thats ALL I DO.....

 

Usually alone but occasionally my wife will ask me to do it for her to watch.

 

My GF and I are nudists. My dick is out and easy to play with most of the time. Yes, I play with my dick in front of her. She doesn't mind at all. I do not always play with it to the point of cumming. Sometimes, well, it just feels good and I do cum. Sometimes that makes her horny and she cums. Being a nudist is the way to live a great life!

 

I think the trick is to find a like minded partner to spend time with like you have.

 

Single and 73 ,so only masturbate on my own, temporally living with relatives, but sometimes can hear them making love in the next bedroom, and mastubate at the same time

 

That is the trick. The solution is, DO NOT SETTLE. Be honest from the start. Tell them you are a nudist on the first date. If they are good with that, tell them more. If they leave and never call you back, then they were not right for you. I knew my current GF of 10 years was a nudist when I asked her out. That part was easy. She knew I was very open with sex when she said yes. I got lucky, but I have been with a few that were gorgeous but didn't let me live my lifestyle.