I don't like to give head

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by lynsey, Jun 25, 2006.

  1. Soberbeah

    Soberbeah Member

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    get him drunk, that has helped me many a time
     
  2. Jon1138

    Jon1138 Member

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    I don't get how you can think giving head is such a big deal, if he's clean, which he should be before you give it to him in my opinion, it is just like licking any other body part -- NOT gross, totally clean. The ending could be considered "gross" but get over it, that lasts like 5 seconds.
     
  3. MaximusXXX

    MaximusXXX Senior Member

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    For me and some of my friends, it doesn't matter all that much.
     
  4. campfirejam

    campfirejam Something-Something

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    I was going to reply to this but then I saw that there were 9 pages of answers so I figured what it was that I was going to say is probably somewhere already in here so it doesn't really matter. But you know me, I can't leave without saying something.
     
  5. DroopySnoopy

    DroopySnoopy The ORIGINAL Dr. Droop

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    If you don't like to give it, don't. There are many othe ways of satisfying your partner that you will both enjoy.
     
  6. andcrs2

    andcrs2 Senior Member

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    Actually a combination of 'answers' and complete, absolute bullshit
    accented w/a dash of drama ot three.

    Wonder how many noses grew long as a results of some of the posts? *c*

     
  7. dances in pajamas

    dances in pajamas strange little girl

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    I happen to love it. But if you don't like it, don't give it. I know quite a few girls who think it's kinda gross.
     
  8. Foxes_Den

    Foxes_Den Outta here...

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    You feel how you feel. You can't argue with emotions because they aren't subject to logic.

    But I will make this observation, and it's not intended as criticism to any answer here. Simply throwing out oral sex altogether is like going to a race with one foot in a bucket. You may still win, but it's a lot harder to run. Oral sex is simply another thing to help your partner enjoy, and ruling it out forever is handicapping your sexual repetoire.

    I hope that you find this is just a temporary state, because in my experience, oral is a great way to add another aspect to love-making. But never do it if you just don't want to. Hopefully you'll find someone who will inspire you to try it again and you'll find it was the circumstances, or past experiences, or some outside influence that made it unpleasant.
     
  9. thesilentone

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    pussy and cock aren't the same. a clean showered cock isn't going to have such a taste aside from the cum, pussy has taste and lots of juices and lots of pussy isn't exactly clean. if a woman doesnt know to clean her pussy it can leave a bad taste in the guys mouth for an entire day, im not kidding. thats the only problem I have with going down on a woman, is that when you havent done it to someone before you dont know if they clean or not. if I know they are clean and taste ok I love it, but if they shower and forget about their pussy and get to smelling/tasting bad down there then it really puts me in a situation.. because telling them makes them feel uncomfortable and the sex life with them shoots to zero.. but hey someone has to tell them
     
  10. whereami

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    "I treat a girl who don't give head like a Beta Max...They still make you?!?!?!" - Chris Rock
     
  11. abbielouise10

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    I dont like giving head either, and i feel uncomftable recieving it. But im quite honest about it, i make it clear from the start that im not that into oral. I dotn mind doing it once in a while to please my other, but otherwise i wouldnt be bothered if i never gave head again.
     
  12. andcrs2

    andcrs2 Senior Member

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    Congrats on your Honesty/ forthrightness/ lack of deception.

    These are very important - concepts some either don't understand/ refuse to exercise in R/L...
     
  13. clementinexo

    clementinexo hip *****s sucks.

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    how can you hate giving head? jesus... i must be crazy but if i'm with the right guy who i care about then i love doing it. i'd do it all day long if he wanted me too.
    but i think if you're with someone you don't care about then it sucks and can be degrading.
     
  14. honeyhannah

    honeyhannah herbuhslovuh

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    Cute pic clementine.

    When I first started, I didn't particularly like it either. I didn't feel comfortable even having it mentioned until the 6th or so time I had sex... and had never done it until I was comfortable, or just plain curious... and when I did it then I felt pretty clueless and I wasn't sure if I liked it or not, not that I was down there for a very long time to find out... but when I got together with my boyfriend it just wasn't an issue at all... I did and I grew to love it!

    I found that a lot of sexual issues I had in my head were due to things my roomates and girlfriends would say from the time my friends first started talking about sex... things I had no clue about and just took their word for it, but once I was open minded enough to see what it was all about, I grew to love it.
     
  15. DroopySnoopy

    DroopySnoopy The ORIGINAL Dr. Droop

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    yea, the biggest part of it is reaching that comfort level with your partner and feeling close and comfortable with them. it's alot easier to let go of your inhibitions that say, a one night stand or something. That connection has to be there.
     
  16. campfirejam

    campfirejam Something-Something

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    I like giving droopy head!!
     
  17. DroopySnoopy

    DroopySnoopy The ORIGINAL Dr. Droop

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    it won't be droopy if you are the one doing the giving!
     
  18. campfirejam

    campfirejam Something-Something

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    I'll take the droop right out of your snoop.
     
  19. DroopySnoopy

    DroopySnoopy The ORIGINAL Dr. Droop

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    Hehehehe, I bet! :D
     
  20. Alana

    Alana Come again!?!

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    Be honest first! I've had a few guys walk on me because I was honest. I give head, I'll jack you off, I'll let you cum on any part of my body you please - Bit I don't fuck - period!

    NEVER DO ANYTHING SEXUALLY THAT TURNS YOU OFF! It makes no sense, and takes some of the pleasure out of it.
     

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