i dont know what i am... can anyone help?

In the end it doesn't matter what you are as long as you live as you wanna live. This sounds like how I was when I was a bit younger Iam still young but when I was about fifthteen I felt this way. I guess you could call it bi or bicruious but in the sexuality is fulid I belive so just live.

 

personally i dont think labels make sense, i think people are attracted to people, not parts, hope this helps

 

yeah, who cares what ya are.
just have fun and be safe.
if you are attracted to both sexes, more power to ya!
if you only like one sex, that's cool too.
if you are physical attracted to the ladies and emotionally attracted to the mens, whatev!
as almost EVERYONE else has said... fuck labels!

oh and freud was crazy. interesting, but crazy. don't trust alot of the things he said... he also said that all women want penises and that all sons want to sleep with their mothers...
i, however, do agree with his idea that most everyone is a little straight and a little gay.

 

Putting a lable on yourself won't change anything (although it might make you feel less confused). No matter how it ends up, just go with the flow. Life's alot easier that way! And keep an open mind about relationships: you never know what's gonna happen!

 

I feel EXACTLY the same way!

 

I reeeally know what you mean.

Good luck with your searching.

 

Id say you're bi as you have feelings for both. In my own situation i knew instantly i was gay as i only had feelings for guys...never ever had any towards girls. If you are even remotely turned on by a guy as well as a girl then id say you are definitely bi.

 

I agree. I used to call myself bi. But I realize that in my heart of hearts I feel and I am gay. I have relationships with two guys and multiple flings and short lived things with girls. so it doesn't really matter. You will end up with you ever you end up with.