It's just a label, my friend. Enjoy it if you can find the gay or bi man to help you out with that. There are plenty of men out there very willing to suck another man's cock. And, it really is not that huge of a risk in most areas (in the United States, anyway)
I identify as straight and I can't imagine kissing or feeling romantic with a male but very early on, I got a fascination with stiff, meaty cocks. I love sucking and pulling with a friend if I can. It's a real bonding session and much less complicated than hooking up with a woman on the side. The mind games do my head in.
In my early twenties after I had sucked several cocks and accepted that I liked it, I was still thinking of myself as straight. All my relationships were with women that's where my interests were. The second time I had anal, I'm there on my hands and knees being fuck well for a solid five minutes when he reached around and began stroking my cock. If you ever get a chance to do that don't turn it down. But there I was being pounded and stroked, I remember thinking, I can't call myself straight anymore.
I don't care about labels... I go back and forth between saying I am gay or I am bi... but honestly, I know where I land on the scale. When I sit around with a bunch of my older gay buddies, I hear mention of ex-wives, children, grandchildren... Hey, you can say you are as gay as you want to be, but you aren't. That's me. I've been married to a woman. I've got adult kids and little grandkids. But, do I pursue women now? I'll be honest - I am not a guy who is good at pursuits anyway. Doesn't matter what gender they are... But, if someone gives me the slightest indication they are interested in me, I am ready.
If you are thinking that I would say at least bi curious. If you act on it and enjoy it well you stepped into being bisexual. For me I had always thought I was straight. Then In my late 30s I let a guy suck my cock and became very bi-curious. I explored and enjoyed more with guys and now consider myself as very bisexual.
I considered myself straight until the moment I took that first cock in my mouth - and subsequently my ass. That's when I could honestly consider my bisexual. It's been years since I've had hetero sex, and only sex with guys for the past ten years. You could say then that it then makes me gay. But I have no real attraction to men, only younger women. Just can't find that female partner. So, I just stay with "bisexual".
Fuck the stupid lables. Like Popeye said "I am what I am and that all that I am" Go with the flow. Its whatever life throws at you. Deal with it. There are always Solutions for Situations. When by wife had medical problems , we found a Solution. We had a very close gay friend who ,jokingly, said he would be willing to help. My wife hardly hesitated before she said" that was a Great Idea." He had already seen my cock and watched me cum in the past,was now a gay senior, without a partner. He was a modest getleman who was as lonely and needy as I was and my wife thought we should just "take care of business". Sex with a guy never entered my mind, until it became a logical choice. First time he gave me a bj, he came in his pants as he sucked me. I never got to do it to him. My wife said I owed him a bj and actually set it up for us to do it, while she watched. That was the kicker . Doing it while she watched was so fucking exciting, I'll never forget a moment of any of the experience. We continued to explore our options until he passed. I don't have any attraction to guys at all, but have had two friends since. Its a matter of survival in a manner acceptable to US.
From what I have seen, in porn, sex chat,etc. Since 97% of 70+wives are finished with sex,they don't care if their husbands are Bi. According to my wife, nobody wants to suck an old guys junk, except another horny old guy , just so he could get his sucked.
Just like the guy who'd be sucking your cock, you wouldn't be "straight." There's nothing wrong with being bisexual and embracing your sexuality.
I think that would make you at minimum bi-curious. If and when you do get your cock sucked bi or gay guy, you'll probably realize you're also bisexual, and there's nothing wrong with that.
It really doesn't matter what others might say. Having only had sex with guys for the last 10 years, do you think of yourself as gay? You're opinion is the only one that truly matters.
I think our sexuality is a continuum, form many years I considered myself straight with some curiosities. Once I gave into those curiosities I considered myself as possibly bi. At this point I had sex with more men than women by far and while I’m game for sex with both I don’t worry so much about a label anymore.
If you've been having sex exclusively with men for the past 10 years, then as you say, you're probably "pretty much gay." Nothing wrong with that. But if you've only been having sex exclusively with for that long, wouldn't that mean you are actually attracted to men, and not just cock?