I cant talk to gurls.

Actually, I called girls who "do NOT under any circumstances find drunk and horny boys sexy... or confident... " prudes. You know, the whole "I'm too good for drunks".

I'm pretty sure you don't like me, and if I needed to pick a word to describe you, well I'm pretty sure it wouldn't be prude.

Who said anything about caring whether the girls drink - I recommended that he have a couple shots of liquid courage to get over his fear.

I'm past that though. I'm charming drunk, stoned, drunk and stoned, stone drunk, drunk in conjunction with three large bong hits, in fact, pretty much always.

Look, if the only guys that hit on you are drunk, don't complain to me.
*Edit. I won't poke fun at someone I don't know.
I wouldn't talk to you sober, either.

 

haha actually that's my best friend... and she's high...

 

I could care less. The point remains the same.

 

and what exactly WAS that point?

 

That you are a)twisting my words and b)acting high and mighty.

 

Maybe the girls are pissed that you never spell their gender correctly.

 

smoke less weed man, girls trip me out when i'm stoned all the time. Fuck drinking get some fucking mdma now thats confidence

 

Don't talk to them like girls, but talk to them like guys instead.

 

confidence my friend... push just to the edge of arrogance... they'll love it.

as far as rejection... get used to it. it is a part of life..., just think for a moment of every hot girl you've seen......
no remember women out number us on this planet... I refer to it as the Law of Averages..... talk to them, for every 20 you talk to you can land (and fuck) 1-2 of them.
but you must play your cards right, and be confident.

Want pointers PM me.....later

 

You need practice. Two things to consider. One, if it is just "girls" in general, find some interesting topics that you can read up on that girls in your age group talk about. If it is a girl in particular, then find out what SHE likes and learn more about that. Here is an example; learn her favorite band, buy their CD and learn the lyrics to one of their songs. What is her favorite color, perfume, flower, ect. Make sure you don't become a stalker in your research

I started an interesting conversation with a young lady who was wearing rings, by simply saying "what are your ring stories? Ever ring has a story". Sure enough, she had a story for each one of them. I didn't "hook up" because it turned out she had a boyfriend, but we had a nice conversation that was non-threatening and no rejection. She still says HI when I see her.

Another way to practice is on kids. Little kids love the attention of older people, and anyone over 12 is OLDer to them. Confidence is key.

I might throw in this is good advice if you are looking for a job. Before you go for an interview, Google the company, learn the name of the CEO, and a little bit of the companies history. It will impress the person who interviews you that you took the time and effort to check them out.

Good luck,
James
Introverts RULE once we get past our fear. (Ask Bill Gates)