I can't stand my mother anymore!!

Babybud and mystical shroom... Don't take this seriously, but I wonder if you've actually read more than the first post...
Cause if you read 'em all, her mom doesn't seem like she loves her, more like she just wants a minion..

And mystical shroom, isn't it a tad bit stupid not listening to him cause he made a stupid post?
Read what he's saying it actually makes sence, he made a stupid post, so what, get over it!

 

How does her mom act like she doesnt love her, please do tell? I seriously want to know what her mother did that was so horrible?
Dont jump down my throat when I just stated my opinion, cause its just my take on it.

 

Well she might love her, but she's a total control freak... You can't see what she did that's so horrible? She seems like if she doesn't wanna be with me doing things she hates then I'mma break her down and rob her of all friends but me...

 

This is what I think after reading your original post, but of course, I do not know you or your mother personally, so I am simply going by what my initial reaction is...

It sounds to me as though your mother loves you and wants to spend quality time with you, perhaps develop more of a relationship, seeing that the two of you have had a history of personality clashing.

It also sounds like she's concerned for your emotional welfare, and maybe her dragging you out of your room is simply to get you out and about, instead of holing up in your room by yourself. It seems like she is worried about you, and trying to help you in the only ways she knows how, regardless of whether or not you agree with them or appreciate them. And the forbidding of certain friends, well, she probably feels as though she is protecting you.

She is your mother afterall, and it's true, if you push yourself away from her continuously, you will more than likely regret it when she's no longer around. Family is family, like it or not. The best thing to do is try and accept them for who they are, even if they irritate the heck out of you (believe me, I have some family members that get under my skin in the worst way) and let those annoying qualities slide a bit. No, I'm not saying you have to agree with everything she says, because with my family members, when I disagree, I let them know, but in a respectful way, and then I change the subject to avoid further problems. It usually works, at least in my situation.

Don't push your mom away sweetie. You'll more than likely look back and wish you hadn't.

Many hugs...

 

I dont know her situation, who knows her mom could be crazy, but from that original post, that is what I took from it. I am probably wrong but thats my view about it. I dont think her mom is trying to hurt her in any way...
I think hippychickmommy explained it best.
You are right, it was sorta dumb for me to dismiss that guys post cause of what he made threads about but come on, can you blame me (bad, bad joke)

I am sorry for this girl who's mom is acting like this but I dont think she is being horrible, she may do things that are not justified but she needs to realize that her mom does love and care a lot about her. But I dont know the whole situation, I am not there, I dont see their daily lives..It could be worse then what she says, and it may not be, who knows.. I certainly dont...

To orginial poster, I apologize for my earlier post if it came out wrong, I dont kow your situation but from some of the things you said, it sounds like your mom loves you, though she is acting crazy maybe if you talked to her (i know easier said then done) she might listen (again, easier said then done)
good luck in whatever happens...

 

Well I'm not that much in to it either, and yeah from her first post I don't see anything wrong with her mum... But with the rest I just think it sounds wrong what she's doing...

And I really didn't mean to jump you, I just tend to express myself a bit hard sometimes

But yeah I admit it does diminish his credablility, but if a fools keeps talking he's bound to be right at some point