i cant get through this

At 15, I thought everything was "Totally Dire" too, and that being grounded was the end of the world.

When I was older I realized that being grounds rocks.... because it means you have a home and parents. It means that you aren't living in your car.

 

good point.

 

the world isnt "totally dire". i could care less if i was grounded if i werent going out with anyone. but now itll be so hard to see him, which is the only depressing thing about it.

 

if you dont mind me asking and you dont have to answer, but how old is your bf? again you dont have to answer or anything...

 

hes 18, but im soon to be 16, so hes only about 2 1/2 years older.

 

Honestly, if you didn't want to be grounded, why did you skip school? Sounds like you get grounded fairly often, ergo, you knew that your actions had consequences. Were you hoping you wouldn't get caught?

I used to get grounded all the time... but probably only half of the times I would have been if I had been caught doing all the stuff I did that was punishment worthy. So, when I did get caught, I just took it... because I remembered the 3 other times I had pulled the same scam and didn't get caught.

If you are going to do the crime, you have to be prepared to do the time. It's either that, or be good.

There are often loop holes when being grounded... you just have to think about it rationally. What exactly are you grounded from?

 

i think she's grouded from her boyfriend. he's probably a bad influence, but very sexy.

 

i use to get beat with a belt ontop of being locked in my room... i use to wear 4 pairs of underware when i knew i was going to get the belt and the worst is we had to go get it, we would always look for the thinnest and smallest one...


but beck, it does suck and i am sorry to hear, i dont really know your situation or how and your parents get along but maybe they will let you see your bf again...

 

ha yes he is very sexy, but my parents dont know about him. im grounded for lying about being at school, but i would have gotten away with it if that stupid attendance office bitch hadnt called my dads emergency number to confirm it.


i only skipped school to once again spend time with my boyfriend, and he calle in for me. but im usually not grounded, this is the first time in a while, but its for a long ass time.

 

oh. don't let your parents find out at all. he could be arrested for contributing to the delinquency of a minor. that's just not done. kinda uncool from my personal perspective. no offense intended. i'm a mom.

 

its ok, im in such trouble for this because i lied, but i only lied so they wouldnt find out i was with him cause i dont even want to think of what would happen...

 

I think that "stupid attendance bitch" was only doing her job.

Maybe next time when a stranger calls in to say that Mary Elizabeth isn't going to be at school the Attendance Bitch won't call to confirm it and then the kidnapper will have lots of time to rape and kill Mary Elizabeth before anyone even knows she's gone! That would be better, eh?

Have you tried to talk to your parents about your very sexy boyfriend? Maybe you could work together with your parents? Introduce them to your boyfriend? My parents hated my BF when I was 15, because he was a "bad influence" (and he was, but I didn't see that then). They knew they couldn't stop me from seeing him, so they would let us hang out at our house 4 nights a week. Think something like that might work?

 

well im planning on introducing them and telling them were "friends" and that hes only 17 to take it slow. But he would need a ride back from college and its hard for him to do that. Once my parents say its ok for my to have people over, thats what ill do. He might have to shave though which sucks.

 

hey ya dumb bitch, guess what? i never said anything about age! being grouned isnt a big deal and you're acting like its the worst fucking thing. I suggest you continue school and not ditch anymore since you clearly need it (You obviously can't read too well). I'm being a bitch to you because you were being a bitch to me when i was going through a hard time, and still after that i tried to be nice to you despite your immaturity...yet when i was nice you were an even bigger asshole to me. No, this has nothing to do with age. I have friends that are 15 and they're nowhere near as dumb as you. By the way when did I ever say anything about 2 years making me better than you? yes, you do grow a lot when you're a teenager in 2 years but i think most 17 year olds are morons too, and don't get me wrong I'm not excluding myself...I still know that there are a lot of things in the world I have yet to learn about, but luckily for me i'm not ignorant enough to act like being grounded will be the death of me.

 

How about this?

18 + 15 = jail.

15 + lying + ditching school = something to be checked quick fast in a hurry.

Your boyfriend should be in school or in a job - not hanging around with jailbait and encouraging her to lie and leave school - believe it or not this is a crime.

 

yes, because lying to them about your relationship with this guy will only make it better

jesus, at least be upfront with them if you're going to be such a dumbass by skipping school and being jailbait for this boy. Maybe you'll earn a little bit of respect instead of blatantly lying to them. Stop lying and you have a shot at earning their trust and respect back.

 

for some reason all this is entertaining me. first of all, waterdreamer, i dont even remember you. second, thats the first time ive ever ditched school. and i never said being grounded will kill me. i said not being able to see him will kill me, hes goes to school too far away and i onyl wanted to spend more time with him for one day before he went back, thats why i ditched. its not like im failing my classes, i have all a's and b's. and its only one day of school, i wasnt missing anything.

 

Does Mr. Sexy & 18 know how old you are? Have you told anyone the truth lately? I just can't see this situation getting any better until some people start taking responsibility for their actions.

 

for some reason all this is entertaining me. first of all, waterdreamer, i dont even remember you. second, thats the first time ive ever ditched school. and i never said being grounded will kill me. i said not being able to see him will kill me, hes goes to school too far away and i onyl wanted to spend more time with him for one day before he went back, thats why i ditched. its not like im failing my classes, i have all a's and b's. and its only one day of school, i wasnt missing anything.


i have all a's and b's............GREAT SENTENCE STRUCTURE! or was that just a fucked up paragraph?

 

no, im just lazy. your talking to the person who gets by in school by doing homework only in study hall. and yes, he knows how old i am. im sorry to say this but i only lie to my parents just because they wouldnt be approving of anything i do. except like my grades and that i can play guitar.