Okay, I just can't find it. I stick my index finger all the way in I can, and make a come here motion towards his penis (I'm aware the prostate surrounds the base of the penis) but I find nothing... Smooth. No bump, no walnut, nuffin. Am I just not reaching far enough? Any suggestions would help. I'm so frustrated and now that I've tried I just have to do it! lol, I really want to know if it'll make an orgasm more intense for him.