I can't fall asleep when I'm in bed alone.

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  1. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    I never realize how codependent I am until I have to sleep alone. Someone sing me a song pls.
     
  2. RubySoho6

    RubySoho6 Organized Chaos

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    I get to sleep alone 2 nights this week. I'm looking forward to it. I get the whole bed and no snoring. PARTY!!!!
     
  3. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    on my way
     
  4. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    I like the bed to myself sometimes, if not I put the TV on or go in the sunroom and put the tv on in there and curl up on the couch.
    Don't like too many nights alone tho.
     
  5. Gyro Gearloose

    Gyro Gearloose Senior Member

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    Hello,

    how about a buddy:

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    As I understand it that is the wife of

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    Regards
    Gyro
     
  6. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    I'm like the opposite because there's so many pillows it's hard to not get comfortable. =p
    And apparently I'm prone to have kicking fits and spasms while I sleep and if you're a like sleeper I'm not the person to jump into bed with. XD
     
  7. RainyDayHype

    RainyDayHype flower power Lifetime Supporter

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    I have trouble falling asleep alone. I like to be all curled up right next to someone then I sleep soundly. I was actually thinking about buying this pillow but then talked myself out of it... I just need a cuddly boyfriend.
     
  8. Joshua Tree

    Joshua Tree Remain In Light

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4nNDcxtR4oI"]The Beatles - Good Night

    :)
     
  9. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    "i hate sleeping alone" has to be in the top 10 annoying complaints. when people say this, i just don't buy it; they're just can't-be-single people trying to get pity because they're between relationships. sleeping alone is exactly like sleeping with someone else, either way you're asleep and oblivious to who or what is near you.

    can't fall asleep alone? why not? you're free from distraction, apparently for a change. what is there to do besides sleep?
     
  10. AngelAus

    AngelAus Member

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    I'm most comfortable in bed on my own. I of course sleep beside my boyfriend but when he's out on fly out work for a month I get so excited to be in my big bed all to myself.
     
  11. Meliai

    Meliai Members

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    I love falling asleep alone. Falling asleep with him is a pain in the ass because he snores, ok sometimes he just breathes but I'm really neurotic. I like to go to bed about an hour earlier so when he comes and cuddles up to me I'm too sleepy to notice he's breathing on my neck and his flesh is too hot.

    I'm actually a really lucky girl to have found someone to put up with my neuroses lol.

    I do get lonely if I wake up in the middle of the night and he's not there.
     
  12. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    I don't like it for more than one night. :/
    :driving:
    Yeah, we took the TV out of our room. I just lay there and scroll through my phone.
    0.o
    Lol, Im plenty comfortable, just lonely.
    I totally cuddled my pillows last night.
    This really made me smile :).
    First of all, you need to pipe the fuck down. Second, I'm not in between relationships. My guy is gone until Wednesday. I hate hate hate sleeping alone.

    Not that I recall asking for your opinion.
    I like spooning and getting felt up.
     
  13. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    Luckily I did not marry a man who snores Lol. I can't handle that. I need the physical contact though.
     
  14. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i didn't say that you were between relationships, i made a generalization about people that say "i hate sleeping alone." which is not what you said, but is something that i hear all the time and was close enough to what you said that your thread reminded me of it.

    you don't recall making this thread? i mean, posting a thread on a public forum is basically asking for forum members' opinions on the topic after all.
     
  15. RainyDayHype

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    I take offense to this. Sleeping alone isn't like sleeping next to someone else. Some people like to sleep alone and some people like the comfort of having someone else in bed with them.
    "What is there to do besides sleep?" Cuddle!!!! Talk before falling asleep.... Massages..
     
  16. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Well sex is certainly not an option :rolleyes:



    Hotwater
     
  17. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i don't know, i've done both and i maintain that once you're asleep, you have no idea which one you're doing.

    i was talking about when you're by yourself. so this kind of proves my point, it's easier to fall asleep when you're alone because there's no one to cuddle, talk to, or massage.
     
  18. RainyDayHype

    RainyDayHype flower power Lifetime Supporter

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    I used ellipses for a reason
     
  19. RainyDayHype

    RainyDayHype flower power Lifetime Supporter

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    No.. it's easier to fall asleep with someone else because all of the activities I mentioned are relaxing, thus help a person to fall asleep..
     
  20. Wizardofodd

    Wizardofodd Senior Member

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    I sleep no matter what. I don't care. We go to bed at different times. I notice more during the middle of the night or in the morning. I want to wake up and feel her next to me. She's so sexy to me at 4 am or 7 am. She's just herself. It's raw and super hot.
     

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