How do you say to your visiting ex that you are involved with someone else? I have chatted frequently with EX since our split last year. He moved west, I stayed east. He's coming home to visit family. I've never alluded that I was dating (re: fucking my roomate) He returns soon and he wants to see me (ALL of me) and I can't find the balls to belly up and admit I can't. Who out there has gone through this before? What happened to you? He was my first love (I know, Bleh-mushy!) If I'm honest, I just really want to lay down on top of him naked. The sex was always amazing! Help!