I broke up with my bf

I broke up with my bf after 2 and a half years... It was a serious relationship, he was a big part of my life, and now it feels very weird...

Even though I was the one to suggest it because we had been having problems for a while (and I didn't see where those problems were coming from), I want him back now because I've realized I was causing the problems, and now that I know that, I can avoid that. But he doesn't want to get back together (at least not now).

I screwed up.

I don't know why I'm even posting this. I guess I just needed to vent a little.

 

I guess it's called 'live and learn.' There are others out there and maybe now you know what you should not do with your next 'other.'

 

Definitely. I'm really grateful for that, for the experience.

 

wow you guys suck. I kinda knew I was right. jeezus. have self-control.


you sense issues


you don't ask or bother to understand why


you make shit decision


now you want oppossite of that decision.


this is you. this is howthefuck I make a 50/50 with this shit.


thanks.

 

(to post 3) Good. Now go have some fun with some 'others'. Plenty o' fish in---well you know.

 

I've tried to understand the issues for a long time, but I only really understood after we broke up. And I dunno if we suck, but I did..
I don't understand 'how the fuck i make a 50/50 with this shit'. Explain?

 

He's an obnoxious little boy who blames his godawful personality and unattractiveness on women. Ignore him.

I have to agree with the majority of everyone else here. You live and you learn. Maybe your paths will cross again some day, but maybe this is a chance for you to improve upon yourself and figure out what exactly was the root of the problems you both were having and learn from your mistakes. Nobody is perfect, don't beat yourself up too bad.

 

Thanks

 

Gee, I don't know why, I know I sure would love to get with a guy who constantly bitches about the opposite sex. I know I sure wouldn't rather masturbate with a cactus than fuck him.

 

no


fuck you

 

I just hope he isnt a member @ L.A. Fitness ..

 

I say.. take some time to yourself... Do some traveling, go exploring, adventure... go out and meet some people, simply have a good time.. things will be alright! :2thumbsup:

 

Ignore him. I've seen both men and women go through this. Sometimes it takes a major heartbreak to make someone see their own flaws. Live and learn chica

 

masturbate with a cactus ) good one

 

Nah, I'm not just rationalizing. I did talk to him about it, but he said he couldn't give me an answer yet(to whether or not he wanted to get back together). Which means that right now he doesn't. But he still talks to me sometimes.
So yeah, I'm giving it time like you said, still hoping it will work out, but I'm not hovering on the brink of depression . I'm staying positive, know it's gonna be ok.
Thank you Faelixx!

Thank you! Yep, that's what I'm doing

Thank you! I agree

 

I rather have sex with that cactus than with that hand.

 

Its from Lord of the Rings by the looks of it