I became 30 and I cannot stand it any longer. I need a lady friend to keep living. I never had a girlfriend or girl friend in my life. What is this life?
So that is why I never had a lady friend? Because I did not grow up. Unless I have a lady friend, I find it difficult to grow up.
I only have male friends and they are single too. I dont have a female friend. Mother died. Father lives outside of city.
But never a female friend. Everybody I talk to are males in real life. Females have no interest in talking to me.
I studied university in a class where 70 percent of students were females. The thing is females dont talk to me... Not even in a class where 70 percent of students are females... As I said..everybody I talk to are males. I've been unable to reach their egos (females).
i became 72 and was amazed to have lived a year longer then my father. bunches of stuff i'm looking forward to in the next few years if i should have the fortune to live long enough to see them. ego is not a gender thing. why should it be. you know that's the problem with the idea of gender's influence on personality, outside of the context of what each culture separately expects it to be. also people of any gender live more in their egos when the have less of anything else. especially when they have less access to anything else. its really an advantage to all genders to bring more equality among them. my mom made it to 91, which i don't expect to, but if i make it to 85, well you never know what this world is going to do, what changes will take place and its fascinating to see how they come about, even though many sometimes turn out not to be what i had hoped for. at the same time though, some do. most are expected to some degree. occasionally a few aren't.
Yeah. The males who manage to get girlfriends may have egos too. By managining to have a girlfriend, they did nuclear fission. That is the reason. Ego is usually something girls do have in Turkey, though. They have egos because they were lucky enough to have been born females...but we dont choose that. I would have a crazy ego if I was a girl in Turkey too. I cannot blame them. 1000 guys go after a girl. Let me tell you that at university, I asked something about a lesson to a girl in the class, and she acted like I asked her out... What an ego....
they're something ALL of us HAVE. more intelligent and mature persons of all genders simply place less trust in them.
And again at university, one time, I talked to some girl in the class, she acted like she did not hear me. I call these egos if you don't. I cannot reach their egos.. Simple...
one person is not a statistically large sample. also have you heard of this invention called a mirror?
Nope. They are this way... Believe it or not. They have big egos because they were lucky enough to have been born females. It is a known thing in Turkey how girls have great egos.
This is a Turkish saying which everybody knows in Turkey: ''If I had luck, I would have been born a girl out of my mother''
What did you say to the girl in class? Try something abstract? “Good morning” (Smile) Keep walking.......no secret agenda. Somebody will say good morning back. Polite people would usually do so! Maybe she was so focused on her work she didn’t hear you? I do that when I’m concentrating 100%. Radiate optimism and happiness. Even on a dark day.
Smile? You really don't understand what I am saying, do you? The point is, opposite sex don't talk to me while the same sex do talk to me. In REAL LIFE, it is this way.