That's not the point. The point is that to THEM, it's the same thing. This is not about whether or not this is true or not. This is about how the arguing is affecting their relationship. THey're not going to be won over, just as the op is not going to be won over. So arguing about it is a waste of everyone's time.
to the comment before about Letting animals die out and grey wolfs die out, well let me bring up this poiint? what about all the women who are throwing their babies in trash can's? what about the 100's in children who are killed every year due to there parent's or abuse? what about gangs and volience? what about all these things? My point is, stop worring so much about things we have no control over and live your life, Fuck all the small shit and worry about yourselfs if most people worried about themselfs, and stop giving a shit of what other people thought, what a wonderful world this would be! Can we just all agree to disagree? THAT IS MY POINT!