why even decide to put a label on yourself in the first place. if you need to, do it. but curiosity and trying new things and being who you are is all that matters. do it again...try to make yourself understand the feelings you were feeling...dont do it again and just be amazed and happy with the expirince you had that was out of the ordinary. its all up to the choices you decide to make. i dont think you are anything but curious...gay, bi, straight....whatever. be who you are.
sorry sister, but connecting emotionally with people isn't always linked with sex, if all positive emotions, all love is linked to sex, i can't imagine this sort of world, but it's not... love can be expressed in sex, but love is LOVE, it is an energy, an emotional connection that goes deeper and deeper into the essence of each being, seeing beyond such this as gender, sexuality, and such things. When you realize you are ALREADY connected with everyone, you are begginning to see the universe as it is. wheeeeeeeeeeee much love!