So that makes it ok for some men think its fine to just do what ever the hell the want as long as their cocks are satisfied. And their wives should do exactly what their told. Lets just go back to the dark ages then. And as I said I have not done anything sneaky or tried to manipulate or get my husband drunk so I could get what I wanted. so get your facts right. What you have told me isn't really advice its just criticism. "Three years ago? Let it go. However, you paint a picture of a manipulative jerk. But does that make sneaking OK? " "Don't like our advice? Go play on collarme.com"