humiliation - what is the big turn on ?

I love the loss of control aspects of sharing my gf. I love her asking me if I want him to fuck her beforehand and we have ritual where I kiss her panty clad pussy and she tells me he’s going to be in there soon. It’s as if I’m giving her to him as a present and also that I’m giving him to her. Another cock for her, for her pleasure.

 

Long time ago I hooked up with a young, successful woman with managerial job, and who prided herself for being a tough, efficient boss.
But she was looking for a submissive relationship (her being dominated). And obviously that was a big turn on for her to be at the same time this powerful woman and be fucked on the floor.

 

It was being used and made to do things that we againt the norm. The lure of power over your subject is the turn on as much as making them do things that would be construed as Humiliation. For most , it is only humiiating during the encounter. For others, its maintaining power all of the time and putting them down for it. For us, it was during our experience . My wife would make me do things and sometimes she would be humiliated. Fascials, buttplugs and dildos come to mind..PS. She would really get off on it, then act like nothing happened.

 

Mine was that I was always an alpha growing up, it’s like my friends expected me to be since I was taller and bigger than most. After flitting around with a friend at 13 and we got together again at 18 I was so shocked at how much bigger his dick was than mine. We had played and jerked each other years before but never oral. As soon as I handled his fat cock I wanted to suck it. Kind of like his dick was dominant and I just wanted to make him feel good. Looking at or dicks held together made me very excited, how much longer and thicker. Later I thought of all the girls I’d been with and knew they would like his better.

 

Not too much different was the root causes of my development of my Mall Penis Humiliation fetish. I definitely have a much more alpha than beta personality and have always been a tall, barrell chested and naturally muscular . However I have a tiny penis and I was noticeably smaller than any guys in my phs ed class in early high school and never got any bigger ( so basically as an adult I am smaller than your average 14 year old. By the time I was in my mid twenties I had the sph thing and I am particularily aroused if other much more beta types are way bigger than me.
I was pretty certain all the girlfriends I have had were with better hung guys before and after me. I saw one guys dick who was an ex gfs boyfriend and he was a rather scrawny wimpish type but he had a huge cock ( flaccid in a sports centre change room) If he wasnt even a grower his soft was much bigger and thicker than mine if I was erect. I was totally turned on by the knowledge that he was fucking my ex and she knew how superior his cock was to my baby dick.