ok, so i fugured this would probably be the right place to get some info...my hubby has had a problem(he says since he first became sexually active). when we make love, he comes really quick...like most times under 1 min. we've tried foreplay, we've tried getting him off and then doing it again(we also have a prob there...he can't get hard right away) we've tried doing it really slow, and many different positions, doing it alot...we just tried one of those rings that he puts on at the base, its supposed to not let the blood flow back down as quick, ie: staying hard longer, but that put him in pain...he's really self concious about it, and he doesn't want to talk to a dr. about it...anyone have this problem? anyone have any solutions? thanks for the help! ~Peace~
I don't have a solution nor my experions is suberb buuuut somwhere on this forum was a guy who gave someone this link http://www.sex-project.com/ This is not as it seems some lame ass porn site, but a good information site. There might be some help for him there, take a look at Kegel Exercises for example. good luck
OP - try belittling him. The "phys ed. teacher" notion. You know how phys ed teachers "make men" out of boys by telling them they're fat and gay and useless cause they can't run/catch a ball/hit a ball/whatever and they eventually do that "I'll show you" trip and Hulk out and get the job done right? Maybe you should complain a lot in bed. That'll work wonders.
I don't know, but something that works for me when I want to last longer is either: to get off 3-4 hours before haveing sex or not haveing sex or wanking for 2-3 days, not longer then it only makes it worse... But if that doesn't work try doing some tantric exercises
Tell him to think about a car race or game of bingo while he is having sex instead of about what he's doing.
Consider yourself...LUCKY! I was with a guy would could last for hours...and it got painful I would have killed to be with a guy like that! All joking aside...maybe he's just really sensitive down there...nothing wrong with that, really...
Climax control condoms. I'm not sure that's the exact name but something to that effect. A friend (no, really :& ) got some for the same problem and says when he uses them he "fucks like a porn star". But he also said sometimes they work too well... can't bust at all, and has lost his bone. Might be worth a try.
