We're not in our prime, but I'm trying every avenue to get the wife at least thinking about sex again. She ignored her HRT for years, never using it correctly if at all. Now we're 70, I suppose it's all over, Red Rover. Is there a natural alternative to help with a woman's energy and desire? I have known women who are hot well into their later years. I got horny goat weed for women, primarily to boost energy levels. She tried 1 month's supply, said it doesn't do anything at all, and wouldn't continue it. I'm a great believer in natural therapies. She has vaginismus, and has a dilator set she uses, recommended by a woman's health practitioner, and that works but once I tried with one finger and she clammed up.
One (of many) causes of vaginismus is muscle tension. Your wife might be tensing up because she expects pain, or she be chronically tense because of mild dehydration, sleep deprivation, or a magnesium deficiency. To change the expectation, try Hypnosis for a More Sensual Kegel Exercise. Unfortunately, there's no reliable test for a magnesium deficiency. But small doses of magnesium glycinate can do wonders for some people.
Yes I think there is a lot of expectation of pain. She is ok with dilating herself but won't even try to let my fingers replace the dilators even though it is thinner. She also has dehydration due to extensive bowel surgery, losing over half her large intestine. The magnesium would be easy enough to supplement with.thank you
We have dealt with similar conditions, colorectal surgery, vaginal issues. Long story short, I am the one who gets fucked now. The strapon and toy collection has grown. She will give me prostate stimulaion and other anal pleasures.
I'm looking forward to her following through with her offer. My ass would love the big flexible rubber cock we got for me years ago. Only have to work on her motivation.
I’m no Doctor but my wife and I take our sex life very serious. We always have. My wife has had very good results using the testosterone pellets.
Pellets? All I could think of was the stuff you give to the animals in the petting zoo, with Testosterone added. I don't think I could get my wife to eat them.
Those ones on the insertion tool thing. She was supposed to use them every few days but only put one in if we were going to try having sex. Refused to listen to the doctor and do it right. She still has a box full of them, way over time expired, and some estrogen gel and even wild yam cream, so old now it's drying up like her vag.
