How Ugly Am I?

Yeah, my self-esteem problems stopped when I realized I have a nice dick. lmao, it's stupid but it's true. hahaha

 

To be perfectly honest you're no uglier than any other white guy :2thumbsup:


Hotwater

 

You're doing better than me! I just got a front tooth pulled and only see out of one eye, thus I currently look a bit like Sam_Stoned's posting icon!

 

I disagree. I think the OP mean as a whole and not as any specifics.

 

naw your pretty much doomed.

 

In the vain of looking good as in seeing good. When you see good, you're good looking.

 

yes ..i know

like I said they can smell me from two miles away

 

you look great. Be positive and real. And don't look to others to define who you are.

 

harsh but true. If you came off as a confident guy that was easy in himself I probably would have looked at that picture and thought you were really cute, but because you prefaced your picture with all that jazz about being ugly I didn't really realize you're actually good-looking at first. weird, huh? confidence is key

 

hmm you're talking to a guy who got bullied in high school called ugly, tripped in the hall and a queer and you think I should be confident? what the fuck?

 

just relax, ugly would never have crossed my mind if i randomly saw you in a room. you look fine. try not to live in the past. school is a cruel joke but luckily you arent in it any more. how about you post a new thread with more picks of you and title it "which girls here would like to take advantage of me"

 

let me put it this way. you do not think you are good looking right?

so now does that make you feel socially awkward around girl's you like? Does it make you pre-assume the girl does not want you around because you are ugly? Do you not feel like you are NOT acting yourself and are NOT relaxed because of feeling ugly?

If you answered yes to those then yes to most women you are going to be ugly. Being a guy is really not so much about how you look. It is more about how you act, how you think, how you view things in life, and how you make a girl feel when you are around them.

 

You look fine. Women will always choose personality (a guy who can make them laugh) over looks. I mean, look at Woody Allen and Larry David; knee deep in female drama :sombrero:

Movie recommendation: Adaptation

 

This happened because bullies prey on weak minded people. Your weakness was detected therefor that is why you were chosen to be the victim. You gotta learn to be mentally strong though. If you let them break you down they win. Do not let bullies get into your head. Bullies get pleasure off knowing another person is suffering.

Now that is just the mental part.

there is also physical bullying. you got tripped n stuff. You gotta learn how to fight man. I am not saying become a violent person. Just it is good to know how to fight life in certain situations.

You are not fat as your picture shows. So here is the 3 keys to fighting.

conditioning- go running and jump rope and lift weights

Experience and relaxation- Find a friend or something to wrestle so you can get good at wrestling. Maybe find a friend you can box with. Even if you both suck nothing beats doing the actual thing. buy some head gear and gloves and a mouth piece to reduce injury risk.

Coordination- You need to have a good mental focus. Any sport allows you to have mental focus. Find on which one you like. Even throwing a ball to a friend and catching it is good enough. The better you get at playing ball the faster you can throw it back and forth. If you can pitch the ball hard at each other from a close distance and catch it fine then you will have great concentration for fighting.

Also physical training helps relax the mind. So by exercising you can also boost your mental confidence.

If you are not afraid to stand up to a bully and you do put yourself down with negative thoughts you should be fine.

plus women like knowing they have a man around that can protect them.

Yes, mean good looking bitch girls mess with lots of mens heads. It is always good to be nice to people. women can be bullies to weak men and mentally break them down. some girls like having that superior feeling like they are better than you because they are socially confident and love taking advantage of your weakness that they detect and breaking you down because of it.

So as a man you gotta be tuff. straight up.

 

You got to take Ender from Ender games example about bullying.:devil:

I was bullied in HS. This guy would go into my book bag and steal my lunch tickets and I always went without lunch. One day, I noticed he REALLY loves his hat, so I took it off his head and tried to throw it in the garbage as revenge. Before I could do that, he picks me up and body slams me into the lunch table WWE style. He pins me to the ground and gives me 5+ punches to the face. I didn't know what hit me. But during the fight and after, I kept the hat in the grips of my hand and I tried to throw it away... I attempted this during the confusion of school security breaking the fight.

Needless to say, everyone saw ME as the hero and no bully ever bothered me again. People would crack jokes that I was like Mick Folley... taking a beating like a pro... lol :afro:

 

theres literally nothing about you to make anyone think you're ugly

 

Amen sistah! But seriously, you are right. Some of the most interesting people I have ever known have been pretty homely looking. As long as you are good people I don't give a shit what you look like.

 

You’re not ugly just facially challenged :2thumbsup:


Hotwater

 

I don't understand this

 

what that the OP has no hope?