How to tell my wife

Why is this so freakin' difficult?

Buy a small unintimidating anal toy, do NOT open the packaging.

"Honey, one of the guy's at work was given this, and it looks interesting to me. Let's give it a try!"



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Sounds like a good solution. Oh and I find anal play to be very attractive. Its nice, if he is gonna put something in my bum why can't I put something is his? I think fair is fair.

Tiffany

 

And fun for all!

 

To be honest I think you should just go for it. I never used to like it in the ass untill I meet my current wife. I feel in love with her and she wanted to do it so I let her and ended up cumming from my ass!

 

I'm glad the term "epic butt plug" is here to stay.

 

Like other guys here, my wife had that "deer in the headlights" look when I asked her to fc-k me with a dildo.
That was years ago. With so much information available nowadays, you can logicly convince her that there is nothing wrong with it and in fact, it's healthy for you.
Female to male dildo and strapon play is one of the biggest things on the internet. Strapon sites and videos are all over the place.
In my case, my wife knew I used toys on myself, but wanted no part of it.
I had to build her interest in it, to where she was not turned off by it.
She got into it when I would lick and finger her asshole and one day she surprised me by wanting to make me feel good back there too. That was the first time she fuc-ed me with a dildo. Once she saw it wasn't as bad as she had imagined, she got into doing it to me. The one thing that she was jealous of was that I could take a bigger dildo in my ass then she could take in her vagina.

 

Hurt feelings are honest and healable. Lies are lies. It depends on the person; if someone cares more about feeling better than being told the truth, then the douche plan is better for them. Personally, I like being told upfront about anything. It depends on the person receiving the information I guess.

 

You got married and this never came up? She's not going to leave you because you like it up the ass, she probably already has suspisions anyway; women are more perceptive than most people think. Just tell her what you like and she'll probably be fine with it. If in doubt, go down on her for a while and then lay it on her as chicks will do almost anything when they're about to cum.

 

Thanks for the advice everyone. Last night during our play time and while she was receiving anal from me I popped the question and she thought it was the hottest thing I ever asked. I told her I already had a few toys ready for her to use on me and she said lets do it. We wound up going and getting a double ended dildo today and tonight we used it, one end in her ass and one in mine, I never came so hard and long in my life. Thanks again for the info and advice.

 

start leving them around the house. like in the cabinets in the fridge. sock drawers and what not. soo shell get the idea and to stop finding them every where before a gust does shell forfill ur lusts lol
no joke do it you wont no balls