How to tell a girl you want to go down on her?

I've never had a guy ask. They have always just slowly worked their way down...

hrmph.

 

Just DO it.

I assume you're already involved with the girl? Like, you at least already make out and stuff?

First, get into the "heavy petting." Be at a point where you can rub her crotch, either over or hopefully under her clothes. Then, while doing that, gradually kiss down her neck, and whisper (if you must say something), "I just have to taste you! I know I'm going to love how you taste..." as you kiss down her belly to that area.

I'm assuming you're new to licking a pussy at all? Be rhythmic, be flowing, be gentle, and use your tongue FLAT, on the clitoris, and don't try to emulate the asinine flicking that you're sure to have seen porn guys do. That's for the camera, not for the girl. Full, soft lips and tongue are what will be enjoyed, not a stiff pencil-point hard tongue and no lips at all.

There are loads of places on the net where you can get suggested techniques for doing this. I'm more about doing it right than describing it right, but I don't believe I've steered you wrong with what I've said above.

Of course, if you want to be humorous about it, you could just be making out, and then hold up your index finger and say, "Wait here!" and then duck down below and start to chow...

-Jeffrey

 

If women knew how much we actually groove on how y'all taste and smell, we'd never get any work done 'cause you'd be demanding it all the time!

Seriously, I have yet to meet a girl whose taste and smell I didn't end up addicted to. Of course I'm talking about healthy girls with good hygiene, yeah, but... like you said, some women are unnecessarily self-conscious about their taste and put needless restrictions on what could be a raucous good time!

-Jeffrey

 

Reprinted in all its original glory because
...dude, you are good!

A sex-poet! (That's a pun on "sexpot", by the way )

You are right on every single count.

-Jeffrey

 

forgive the rudeness of my gf....she's a woman and knows not of what she speaks.

don't worry, she'll be adequately punsihed :X

 

Reading your posts just makes me want to try it even more. I think I'll just come out and ask if she wants it when the time seems right. Although it would be more romantic to let her know that I want to taste her.

Pull back her hair and whisper in her ear... what?

I'm drawing a blank here. Girls, exactly what do you want to hear?

 

she is going to beat your ass

 

yup

 

it really depends on the mood... sorry that's not a very specific answer

*shrug* sometimes we want to be kinky and talked dirty to, and sometimes we don't like anything to be said.. ^^ as you can see from the posts by girls in this thread...

 

if you've never done it before, you'll probably be confused and disgusted at first.

it will seem to loom large, ugly, and stinky,
then just overwhelmingly large
then largely stinky
but in the end
you get to love the smell
and the canvas that is her garden
it will no longer be ugly

the best way i can describe it is looking at a completely closed rose, in time-lapse photography, opens beautifully


but if you want to do it real bad... just put on some music, and kiss for a while.
then, start going after her earlobes, and just ask if you can "have a taste"
but, instead of just taking a bite, get a buffet pass and eat and eat until you're driving her insane

 

First ask if she got her period (you don't want a mouth full of blood). Then proceed to give her what she needs.

 

Dude, I don't know what you've been licking, but from the very first time, I loved it, and did not find it anything but immensely enjoyable!

-Jeffrey

 

"Bippity boppity boo"

 

andcrs2 has a point -actions are a good thing! Just kiss down her stomach... if you guys are already past the pants-off stage it shouldn't be a big deal. And, well, I suggest mentioning how good she tastes & smells. Apparently some of us chicks are worried about that sort of thing (not I, but Sue Johansen says some are!)




I'm gonna have to agree, just kiss down, if she stops you she stops you (the smack will only hurt for a split second).

 

dont ask--- just do

 

I like the idea of just kissing down the stomach. My boy friend does that and it is GREAT!

 

Usually start making out and bring your head down to her stomach and start hearing the elated squeals of hope...

 

From a chick's point of view this would definitely work, at least on me it would!

 

If you want to be polite about it just ask "do you mind if I go down on you?" or in my case "I'm want to eat your pussy" (which isn't my style, it shocked my girlfriend a bit).
Those usually work but if she says no, don't keep on asking. Some women aren't into that.

Casper

 

just do it