My hubby and I have been playing for about a year. I love it and so does he. Recently I have been stretching him in attempt to fist him. I can get all 5 fingers in, but no matter what position I have him in, I can't seem to get his hole to stretch a bit more to let my hand slid in. We use crisco. Its the only thing he likes. We have tons of toys, plugs, anal ease. I can stretch him well and never have hurt him... I just can't get my hand in.. and been dying too, I have a bigger toy, about 3" that id love to use, So i figured hand first, big boy later. All suggestions will be taken. Im thinking tonight I will have him lay on his back. Pillow under his butt, Legs all the way back and give all suggestions a go. What other positions are good for anal fisting?
I know it sounds weird.. but lubes bother him. so someone told him to try butter.. I chose Crisco instead... it works wonders
Lol never used butter before, did use vaseline bud was to messy to clean up after so I use durex 2 in 1 with aloë Vera or durex anal don't know the exact name of that one. Both have a good and relaxing effect on me. Anyway stretching problems... First of I'm a guy as well and I love getting my gf's hand up my ass. Me and my gf we always use latex gloves when she is fisting me, it reduces friction and it's more hygienic that way (it's still an asshole and even though I always clean myself thoroughly accidents do happen and of course you can wash it off bud the smell stays for about a day...). If you still can't get it in try stretching him up even further using both your hands try putting all four fingers (without thumb) up is ass... Ore use a bud plug that is just a little smaller than your hand or something that is conical (like a lava lamp bud not a lava lamp of course you can use a lava lamp bud I rather not put something made of glass up my ass.) Oh and you probably do it bud just in case you don't you have to squeeze your hand into a cone form just like you would squeeze your fists if you'd like to hit someone it makes it slightly smaller... If all the above doesn't work tie him up get your 5 fingers in as usual, tell him to suck it up and push through slowly.... Sometimes pain can be pleasurable I know my gf is trying to get bot hands up my ass and in the process of adding a finger it sometimes hurts a little bud never in such a way that it becomes unpleasant if so she always stops immediately this is verry important also if you are going to try and just push through.... And if you do manage to get your hand In completely it will probably be the biggest thing he ever had inside of him and it will feel somewhat unpleasant he might even ask you to pull out, you can do 2 things 1 let it in there it will adjust in a couple of seconds, minutes. 2 pull out wait a few seconds and go back in.. It depends on how I feel that day and I always tell her what to do to let it in and wait a few seconds or take it out and go back in after a few seconds.... Hope this wil help you if you have not yet been able to get it in....
