How to stay hard

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by saito200, Aug 8, 2013.

  1. saito200

    saito200 Guest


    I have problems to stay hard with my partner during penetration, and I end up not ejaculating.
    I'm young and in perfect health, so does it happen to anyone else? and how to solve it? What could I try? Maybe asking her to use her hand, or maybe think about something that excites me? I have no problem when I masturbate.

  2. FireWitch

    FireWitch Member

    Are you on any medications? Is this your first gf you've had sex with? Weight issues? Stress?
  3. Sininabin

    Sininabin Member

    Do you masturbate with lubericate? Switch techniques? Semi LOOSE grip
  4. Joshoa

    Joshoa Member

  5. Norcal

    Norcal Member

    Maybe try not masturbating for day or two if you know your going to have intercourse.
  6. deleted

    deleted Visitor

    stick a pencil in it..
  7. NikeGirl

    NikeGirl Member

    I bet you are nervous and not yet 100% comfortable with your GF. I believe in doing just oral for a few weeks to get comfortable with a partner before venturing into intercourse.
  8. desert-rat

    desert-rat Senior Member

    I know there is some thing in water melon , there are some you tube videos on eating water melon to stay hard .
  9. WW0826

    WW0826 Guest

    Agree 100%.

    Last night was the first time my girlfriend and I have had sex. Been dating for about 2 weeks now. We totally skipped the oral and went straight for sex. It was a disaster. I'm going to back the boat up a little bit and go for oral until we're ready.
  10. kurona

    kurona Member

    go to a doctor and ask for some meds that help with these
  11. justwonderin

    justwonderin Member

    Sometimes erectile dysfunction is strictly mental/emotional. make sure your comfortable with your partner. I've read that masturbating with a hard grip can affect an erection while having vaginal sex. Confidence issues can be a huge factor. Maybe too much sexual input otherwise such as porn etc.....
  12. KingWilly

    KingWilly Member

    Got one word for you "Viagra"

    The shit really works. It may not help with the cumming aspect, but the shit sure keeps you hard, even if you do cum you'll remain hard too!

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