go to meetup.com they have a list of local lesbian groups that do a lot of different things. If the bar scene or online isn't your thing.
I'm bi-curious, I have a boyfriend I'm happy with, but i want a lesbian experience, where can I meet another like minded female?
What do you mean by "like-minded", hun? Do you mean, where can you meet a lesbian who might be interested in a bi-curious girl who's happy with her boyfriend and just wants to tick "lesbian experience" off her bucket list? Or do you mean where can you meet another bi-curious girl who's happy with her boyfriend but is also hoping to have a lesbian experience?
Be yourself and flirt with all the ladies If I knew the answer to this I would be happy. There's probably several cute gay ladies around you right now. That's the difficult part of being gay! You don't know! You have to step out of your comfort zone sometimes. But if you just want to hang around a few then visit a gay club or look up a "gay guide to your city" map. It can point you in the right direction. If you want to get noticed by gay girls discreetly then do the following: * Wear something discreet but cute with rainbow colors. Like a keychain. You can drop your keys in front of a hot lady and see how she responds when you kneel down and pick it up. If she's looking at the keychain, she's not gay. If she's looking at dat... Score. * Read something gay in public and see if someone responds. Like Sarah Waters or... Okay anything from Sarah Waters. Everyone will know. Read her. * Flirt like a lady with a lady. You know how women flirt! Discreetly and seductively. It's so easy to flirt and brush it off if you had the wrong idea. Because you know, we flirt discreetly like "hey maybe I was looking at that male on that... Hollister? Bilboard..." I don't know what straight girls look at.
