Question for the ladies. My wife enjoys the occasional spanking and hair pulling during sex. In fact it usually drives her to a very quick orgasm. We just recently received a blindfold, sex whip and handcuffs as a "joke gift". Does anyone have a good way, or role playing scenario to get her into using these new toys.
Does she know about these toys? If so even better. If not try planning a scenario and see what happens. Dont make it nasty first time. Just a few smacks at first and she will probably act on it positively or negatively. If it doesn't go well dont be offended. Ask her what she woulda liked.
Seems to me that is she is already into spanking and hair pulling with no objections, you aren't going to have much of a problem introducing a blindfold, whip, and cuffs. Hey, here's an idea. "Honey, are you up for trying out our new toys?" Who gives a couple a gift of sex toys, anyway????
That gift thing happens with weddings, maybe at the stag or stagget party. Guy or girl starts new relationship and his or her long time friends might do it as a joke, because they support the new relationship,,, who knows.
Great advice Faelixx! Although years ago I rationally asked my wife about trying erotic spanking --she had no interest or willingness to "give it a go." I'll just get her highly aroused during foreplay (where she DOES like me to bite or pinch her nipples HARD). Then I will just move into giving her a Good Girl Spanking which turns out to be an erotic treat for her (and me). Good Girl Spanking http://36.media.tumblr.com/a4b817dd215db9987b14ed0c0b3cff92/tumblr_mtuody20Yd1qddd4so1_500.jpg This is a sensual treat for the woman lucky enough to have a man that will give her a Good Girl spanking! In no way is it a punishment! A Good Girl spanking is slow, sensuous and remains below her pain threshhold. The swats gradually get harder while I admire her fine behind and the rest of her body (which is also great to appreciate with my loving touch), intermixed with lots of stroking, pinching, lightly scratching her cheeks, feeling her wetness grow with one hand and stimulating her anus with the pinky of my other hand (her ahole has one of highest concentrations of nerves in the body, and I don't want to move bacteria to her warm, wet and sensitive female parts). As I very gradually increase the intensity of the swats over about 20 minutes, the endorphin released into her bloodstream will de-sensitize the feeling in her behind. Later I will pull out a heavy silicone bowl scraper spatula by my side, telling her that I have it IF she wants wants me to use it—she will probably beg for me to spank her harder and harder as she gets more of an endorphin high… Wish me good luck! Since I'm wearing a cast after shoulder surgery, I won't be able to try it until around May. References: Hormones Affecting Spanking Http://reocities.com/SouthBeach/bay/3507/hormones.html Spankings: They're for good girls too http://jokideo.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/Spankings.jpg http://jokideo.com/spankings-lol/ How? http://ashrewtamed.blogspot.com/2013/06/how-to-give-your-good-girl-her-good.html?m=1 Example of ~Good Girl spanking http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ec332d4e86a1611a9198
This page for sure caught my eye and tbh i need help my gf has been hanging around someone I've told her not to specificly the girl who tried to send me nudes and get us to break up action must be taking but it's not like I can say ok im gonna spank you now what should I do or how do introduce the spanking aspect
