How to have a successful orgasm...

Hello All.

Before I begin my thread.. lets just say I am new to this forum world. So please, be kind.. I'm kind of nervous voicing my concerns.

I have been with my bf for quite some time now.. and he gets upset because I can't cum and have a proper orgasm. I have honestly only ever done it 1 in my life and I think it was by accident (wasn't really intentional). I have had other sex partners.. and have had the same issue. I don't masterbate often.. and when I do I get overwhelmed and then give up. Any ideas? Is it just me? I feel bad because the poor guy wants me to.. I just.. can't.

 

Well..from a guys point of view, I can only go by my experience..My former wife and I were together over 30 years, and in all that time...she only came "once"...from vaginal sex..so in all the time we were together, I performed a lot of oral...it was the only way she could cum..If we were screwing..I would pull out,..go down..eat her out till she came..then reinsert and cum myself...OR!..I would cum inside her ..then go down and finish the job for her..we always BOTH had orgasms..If a girl wants an orgasm..(who doesn't)..a man should give her one...in any way possible...just my opinion..

 

Yeah…you need to relax.


Just relax and let it happen. I think a lot of females are too worried about pleasing their partner, and they get so much anxiety about it that they forget its an experience for their mutual benefit and enjoyment.

So when you're kissing, move his hands to a place on you that feels good. It can be your breasts, your waist, your hips - whatever you like. Make sure you moan or tell him that you like what he's doing when he touches you a way that feels good. Men really like to please women sexually, so this will be his "compass" to do so because if he hears that you like it, he will probably try to repeat it over and over.

 

And you don't always even need to have intercourse if you just want to have an orgasm thru clitoral stimulation.

 

Read through my old orgasm thread - that's the only way I know of that you can achieve orgasm.

 

http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=265511