So I've been dating a guy for the last 6 months that is REALLY BIG if you know what I mean. I really like him, but sex has been uncomfortable at times, and it's just not something we can do everyday without me getting too sore. Being that he is almost 10 years younger than me and in his mid 30's, he has a much greater sex drive than my ex husband did. Lately, I've been trying to spoil him with blowjobs when I'm not in the mood, but It can be difficult to get him off because of his size. Like most guys, he likes it deep, but my jaw gets tired really fast with him, and it's difficult to get a lot of suction because of the girth. The other problem is the ending. I guess the best way to explain it is that I've never had a problem swallowing or letting a man cum in my mouth, but literally twice as much comes out.The anticipation of this has been causing me to gag before he cums and avoid swallowing. Has anyone had this problem before? I want our sex life to be as good as possible, and I typically enjoy giving blowjobs. If we can't have sex everyday, I don't mind giving him a release before or after work every day. I'm just finding it a lot more difficult than it's been in past relationships. Any advice on this matter would greatly be appreciated.
I was with a really big guy for a few months and to be brutally honest I was in the same predicament as you. Even I've given birth three times naturally my vagina couldn't handle him. Blowjobs were a case of my throat entrance being sore. I tried lube almost every time he wanted sex but ended up just laying back or being in which ever position whilst he shoved in and out of me. So good luck.
I am pretty big myself, my wife found that she needed to take her teeth out to accommodate my cock in her mouth,Anal is almost impossible,and unless her pussy is sopping wet, it is a difficult to get in too!.We have found that if I go down on her for a while,and have her orgasm a few times orally,it is easier to slide my dick in her pussy.But she has to be 'really' wet..and even then it is 'tight' sometimes, hope this helps
Oral sex is fantastic. I've never been with a lady yet that I couldn't make cum hard with my tongue. Re size. The average woman's uterus is only approx 3" from her vaginal entrance. When she is sexually aroused it retracts, but only to around 5-5.5" if you're much more than 6.5" ( my size) then it's actually possible to make penetrative sex uncomfortable for a lady, rather than pleasurable. Girth is what is more likely to stimulate the nerves in her vagina.
