The topic we were talking about was about Bruce Jenner (or CAITLYN as he preferred to called himself) and I had misgendered the person and they got all offended for a good reason. I know that I shouldn't have done it considering it was a support forum but I SERIOUSLY cannot stand that person! First, he abandoned his children to be with another wife and they hadn't seen him in years and never kept in contact with each other! Not to mention that he killed a poor woman while driving behind a vehicle, not even paying attention to what's going on in front of him and now he's rewarded with his own rality TV show while the victims family must be grieving at their loss! To make it a bit more worst, Jenner didn't even apologize to the family. Instead, he walks around like nothing's happened! I cannot believe that people think of him as a role model! It's truly amazing that people think he's some kind of a role model, I mean, come on! There are SO many transgendered people out there who has truly struggled to be accepted, to make a difference in this world but nope, let's just ignore 'em! Okay, now that my ranting is done, I'd REALLY love to go back to the forums again because I'm able to connect with people who are in the same situation as me, to be able to give advice and help others, respond to crazy threads. When I tried logging on this message appeared: It might have appeared to be a bit harsh but that's who I am, it's part of my character. All I was saying was the past history of her and everyone just got so offended. I realize I shouldn't have made that post in the first place but people often overlook these things. These are not mistakes, these are life changing events to whoever happen to witness them and she acts as if nothing happened. I've already sent a message and haven't gotten a reply back yet and I hope I will. I'm planning on sending another message but this time less passive-aggressive but I'm not quite sure what to write, much less if it'll work but it's worth a damn shot? Can anyone please give me suggestions on how to write it? Any tips and advice would be SO appreciated, I'd love you for the rest of my life. You don't know how much this forum means to me and two months without it is like a part of me is dead (REALLY pathetic, I know, right?) Do you think there's any chance of them changing their minds if I write a sincere enough apology?
Why would you want to go on a forum where you can't speak your mind? Sure i've been banned on here before but it was probably because I was a troll/asshole.
You're right but I feel like I'm connected to these people somehow, I can have nice conversations with them, make friends with them etc. As strange as it sounds and I actually do enjoy my time there. Sure, there's times where I REALLY want to speak what's on my mind but I know if I did, I'd get gang-raped left and right just for having an opinion, most of the time not meant to be offensive or anything. Also, as you can already noticed, anything that's considered "offensive" to these people, they have to start throwing tantrums and whatnot. It's actually REALLY entertaining to see a thread turn into an argument. That's when I sit back, grab some snacks and enjoy reading the comments. Ha, they're SO easily offended that it just hurts me physically. Anyways, I felt like it's helped me a bit and it feels good to help other people because it's more of an online support community but it can loads of fun too. I just really miss it and I hope I could somehow convince me to let me back on again. It sucks not being able to chat with others, especially when there's no one to chat with me in reality.
Just acknowledge that you made a mistake in a heat of the moment argument and tell them it wont happen again. if it doesnt work then i guess youre SOL and have to wait a month or two until your ban is lifted. Thats not long at all.
I was considering saying that but maybe a bit more subtle and just say that I was caught in the moment and my anger and frustration consumed the rest of me. Besides, you're right. Two months is not that long and time goes by so quick when you get older. I'm jst worrying about all the topics and discussions I'll miss but at least I'm still breathing! It's not like it's gonna kill me but the curiosity might take the best of me... Yeah, well the majority of people (and I do mean the VAST majority of people are a bit TOO left-wing. I offer my own conservative opinion and they go on to tell me that I'm "immoral" or "inconsiderate" and that only happens most of the time when I'm making a joke. It's like they want to force their opinions on me sometimes but I have met some very respectful and educated ones that make up for the retards who scream "OPPRESSION! FEED 'EM TO THE DOGS!!" Thing is though, when I say my opinion, they absolutely refuse to see my point of view when I can see how their POV could make sense too, I really fear for those people. It's too politically correct for my liking yet I still go on anyway so it's really my fault 100%.
You just grow and realise you can still have your fun, you just need to find creative and manipulative outlets and ways to perform.
op-you couldn't have got riled up over a less significant piece of shit... you're obsessed...now bringing that same topic to this thread with the exact same post? ....that is so weak
Fuck them, new user name and go troll! Make it worth while and fun! Then again, maybe you got banned because the mod was mad their tranny started acting up and went out!
Well your first mistake was giving a shit about Jenner in the first place. I doubt anything he/she/it does actually effects your daily life. don't be a gossiping soap opera drama queen and maybe it would go better for you.
Oh trust me, there are are a lot of trannies around there and it's just sad seeing how many there are. I'd try making a new account but I got a message that said something about spamming accounts and wouldn't let me. I was SO ready to make these peoples lives miserable and just to see their reaction would be priceless, ha! Well, since that didn't work, I'm gonna try to get back into my old account somehow and maybe stir up a little bit o' trouble for what they put me through. I've heard about people getting unbanned because they changed heir IP address and all. It looks a bit to complicated for me, even with all those softwares that just let 'em do it for you. Yeah, I'm still trying to figure it out, ha ha!
Yeah, that's not a bad idea really. It's much more healthier and lets me burn off some steam and free off worries.
Yeah, sometimes it can be really healthy to take a break from the online world. you should take the ban as a welcome break and develop other hobbies. Of course I say this as I'm merrily typing away on hipforums lol
That definitely is true. I have a few books I'm not done reading and a few others that I haven't seen read one page of it yet! Sometimes, I really wonder what I'm doing with my life, just browsing on the internet doing nothing productive...