so i want a threesome i asked one of my friends if she would be into it and she totally is so i tell my boyfriend about him expecting him to be exstaic i mean this is every guys dream right? and he says no he doesnt wanna have a threesome because i quote "i dont want anyone else to touch you" so because hes not willing to share me i cant have my threesome any advice on how to get him to warm up the idea please thank you
Me, either, Laci...me, either...and i would feel lucky that he would not want anyone else to touch me.....too...
I feel your pain. You can't change anyone, all u can do is be the one who changes. If that's what you into, and he's not, your going to have to decide if you want to be sacrificing something you want for him. I can tell you right now from epstien ce, he's going to throw this in your face someday when he's feeling insucure about him self. You will have to decide if the 3some is that important to you. No means no with this subject, and if you keep pushing it, he will start to feel like you think, he alone isn't good enough. BELIEVE ME, get out while you can, if it's that important . He won't give in. so promise. It's going to lead to more issues if you push it
I think if he doesn't feel comfortable with another person in your bedroom then you should respect that. If it is something that is really important to you though, then maybe he isn't the right guy for you.
Just buy a giant teddy bear, print out a picture of your boyfriends face and tape it over the teddybears face, then you and the other girl can go to town
I agree with everyone else, If he is not into the idea, I dont think you will change his mind. You could try doing some innocent cuddling with your gf next time shes over and see if he goes for it, but in his mind it could be cheating. Contrary to popular belief not all men want to have threesomes, nor do all men want to share their woman or watch them with another woman. If its really important to you, then you have to tell him and as someone else said, if its a deal breaker then its better to know now!